Abducted by an MPA! Our Friend & his MPA Girlfriend...

[Leftfoot]

Over the last year, there have been sooooo many [entertaining] threads from those who have fallen for an MPA. Let me introduce a twist to all that...

I'VE LOST MY FRIEND TO AN MPA! He's a nice guy, got a good heart, better than average looking I guess, and sure, he's got some issues, but don't we all! Worst part about this situation is, I pretty much pushed him into the MP that night he met her, and I feel terrible now cause I've watched his life fall apart over her. So what does a friend do? He writes a post on massageplanet.net, cause I can't say everything I'd like to say to him in person, it's too awkward, but I guess this is what you'd call my intervention. And, maybe I'm wrong, maybe I'm jaded, maybe others can comment and tell me to piss off, but I fear for him that I am right and he needs to listen up!

Here are my points (some of this is going to hurt):
(1) Regardless of what she's telling you, what she does with you [sexually] is what she does with many others. Furthermore, what she does with those who have lots of $$$$ is sometimes beyond what she will ever do with you now (based on our last conversation). How am I so sure? I've seen her several times (and so have some of our other friends) and there isn't much we all haven't done with her sexually - the difference is, we're playing safe, and you're not. I'm sorry, we're all sorry.

(2) While I'm not knocking it, it needs to be said: Dude, she's a prostitute. My point? You need to realize that this is what she does man, she has sex for money, and more money means more sex, better sex, etc. She's having sex with people you know, and some whom you consider friends (I would think). You've introduced her to others, but some already knew her, and what she tasted like.

(3) Compare your Before MPA life to your After MPA life. Dude, where's all your stuff?

(4) We all agree that she's pretty hot, and, when we figured out that you were gettin' it for free, we didn't blame you for a second (as long as you were playing safe). But dude, she's controlling you now, and, she's playing you just like any other "john", except she's getting more than $$$ out of you, she's getting your future.

(5) Sum it up here: The fact that she's an MPA, the fact that she's a prostitute, the fact that she's been with your friends, and even some of your family sexually, the fact that she's been capable of treating you worse than a dog (from many of our beer-discussions) wouldn't be enough for any of us to intrude or even comment on your situation. However, she appears to have your future in her hands, and, that really, really scares us.

Bottom line; a piece of ass is just that, a piece of ass. Are you sure your future is worth riding on a piece of ass?

kkarn/

 

[dorkydes]

Kkarn,

Maybe the MPA has a heart of gold and you just can't see it like your friend does.

PS - can you tell me where she works, so I can donate some spooge

 

[Jorbie]

Maybe if we all made a donation to this fine MPA she wouldn't need to take as much from your buddy.

 

[eYo]

WH is paying the mortgage of more than one Paul

 

[JoeClyde]

kkarn.

I feel for your friend and I hope he wakes up and sees his life from a better perspective soon. They usually have to hit rock bottom before this happend.

One thing about your comment though. Calling an MPA a prostitute is a bit harsh. It's not wrong by definition but I always assume that many MPAs don't cross certain lines for a reason.

I hope your statements didn't hurt someone's feelings with your choice of words.

Lets try to have a little more respect and consideration for the ladies that we all love so much.

 

[Rob Roy]

WH, that reminds me. I've changed the payment schedule on my mortgage, please deposit by-weekly now.

Thanks,
kkarn./

 

[KEELEY]

I agree. Perhaps I should change the "MPA" to "MPA/SP"?

kkarn/

 

[Wendy Banbur]

I formally regret to inform you that our arrangement of mortgage payments will be nullified since you bitch and complain too much when I spooge on your face.

Kindest regards,

WH

 

[Hades]

OK listen, as long as you keep it out of my eyes and hair we're good. I'll need some extra cash this weekend though, I've got a date with your Dad and I want to buy a strap-on!

kkarn/

 

[Cloud 9 with bells on!]

Dude, don't try to rip me off

....you know my dad has his own strap-on....he told me you guys were playing leap frog in your basement last weekend

 

[NeoNerd]

LOL

That is rough.....sometimes though, even if it is your closest friend; all you can do is point it out to him. He's gotta make up his own damn mind.

But, as a true friend....if and when all hell breaks; remember - be supportive, be true and be a pal....and reserve the right to laugh the loudest and say " I told you so!"

 

[oismsuucnd]

You wanna help you bud out, and your ready for him 2 be pissed off at you? Well then get a few buds that she does not know and bring a voice recorder with him during the session, get a few guys so that there is a alot of evidence. Give him the tapes and get ready to duck.

I am willing to help you out, just pay for my session and you can get a tape, I will even add after the fact commentary and draw illustrations for each critical scene.

All joking aside, that would be what I would do.

 

[BritneyHill]

It's a tough situation to be in, as I am speaking from past experience. My friends would also tell me the same things you are telling your buddy but I just wouldn't listen to their oppinions.
What a mistake that was!!!
It is unfortunate that some of these girls can be ruthless enough to take advantage of people like your buddy.
All you can really do is tell him that he is making a huge mistake and will probably end up paying for it the rest of his life and regretting that he ever did it. If he dosen't listen then he will eventually learn his lesson by hitting rock bottom and realizing that you were his real friend and looking after his best intrests. I hope he listens to you but if he dosen't I guarantee you he won't fall for it again next time around.

 

[Pompal 09.]

While advertisements for Casinos have "for entertainment purposes only" written in small letters, unfortunately ads for MP's and MPA's do NOT...

It's SO easy to fall into that trap, and I feel for your friend...

Hopefully he'll come out of his trance before this girl takes him for every cent....

Unfortunately, I think this is how the big money girls REALLY earn their cash... It may or may not be deliberate, but their clients fall for them and keep coming back week after week until they wake up and wonder what happened to their bank account, and why the girl still isn't dating them...

At one point last fall I was sitting at the Airport Strip, when this girl told me she'd been dancing for 10 years and didn't make a cent until she "learned the business".... then she grossed $20,000 the next month and used that to buy her condo... That knowledge set off lightbulbs in my head when she started into her "I don't view you as only a client" routine...

I needed TRAINING to build an emotional wall between myself and the MPA, and no matter how nice they are at the end of the session I'm driving home and they see their next client...

As soon as your friend can wrap his mind around that one simple fact, he'll be much better off...

Now that's not to say I don't care for the welfare of my regular girls; I DO... but in such a way that it doesn't drag me down...

 

[heppeee]

Awesome post Indn!

 

[valley9]

This post hits home for me. I am in a similar situation but not quite as involved. I can only say that your friend, like myself, will have to learn the hard way. I want to get out but just can't find a way out. You can see my post titled " How to stay away". It is too difficult if not all out impossible.

 

[No can do Obama!]

Thanks Stealth

BRUCE: I think MANY senior members have fallen into this trap, myself included... it's just a question of whether they'll admit it publicly or not. Any time this issue is raised, it creates alot of responses and "views" so obviously a nerve is being touched...

Unfortunately, MPA's are an addiction like coke, booze and gambling. When your life is stressful it's easy to look for a "high" whether it's winning a few bucks at blackjack or spending time with a beautiful gal who'll make you feel better...

The problem is the human brain will start to RATIONALIZE it by getting into what I call the "lottery mentality..."

IE>>> somebody's gotta win and it could be me... In the case of an MPA that translates into, "maybe if I'm nice enough or see her enough she'll come around romantically..."

Sound familiar ???

I get around this by alternating girls, and I think of my next appointment as I'm leaving the parking lot... That may sound cold, but you can be damn sure as I'm doing that, the girl I've just left is introducing herself to my replacement on the massage table...

 

[mitchell]

It's hard to get out, but the best way is to either find something else to do, or like I did buy a house. As soon as you get hit with a mortgage payment and responsiblity that seems to make all the differnce in the world....

Of course if you can't afford a house, setup an automatic savings plan and get rid of all of your extra money. It's incredible how you can weed yourself off this habit if you don't have the cash to spend on it.

 

[Tucker M]

Toro, how ironic. I've thought about focusing my money on something more "tangible" but it still leads me back to this fuckin' hobby. I thought about getting a steady girlfriend but look who I'm fooling. My last relationship resulted in me seeing a shrink. This fantasy life I'm leading seems much easier. You know....work hard, exercise, work hard some more, get jerked off.....go home and have a good nite's sleep. Am I missing something? How much money do I have to spend before I call it an "addiction"???
Help me please....

 

[Toxicpanduh #2]

Indeed a case of Buyers beware. Similiar to the warnings on the cigerette boxes, the content (of this MP) can be hazardous to the user's (client's financial) health, if not use wisely.

Yes, we all live that dream. To score and be the one.

I guess Flyingdgn posed as a MPA and abducted clients now? Time to assemble the extraction unit specialized in these type of rescue operation. However, the deprogramming will take a long time and in some cases, render useless.