Do SPs care what you look like?

[macho man]

I was discussing this today with friends whether SP would turn you down based off of your looks. I said no, that SPs are being paid to provide you a service and regardless of your looks (except for hygiene) and are entitled to give you that service. My friend on the other hand said that SPs have the right to turn you down if they aren't sexually attracted to you for example if they have a problem with you (if you're too fat, or too short, or too tall, or if they don't like your skin color). What do you guys and ladies think?

 

[thatashleychick]

LOL funny thread. 80% that hobby are fat and ugly. How could the sp make money if they refuse them all. :

 

[moochie]

It'd be no different than any other job really...they're all customers, some they'd like and enjoy doing business with, others they'd want nothing to do with but would put up with it anyway because its their job

 

[Reventon]

SPs usually don't care what you look like.

However, they have the "right" to turn you down for whatever reason they want, including height, weight, skin colour, the sound of your voice and how many toes you have.

 

[jah]

DOH!

 

[Lou]

SPs always have the right to turn you down, just like any business has the right to turn down customers. You cannot force someone to take your money and provide services: that's rape.

Just because an SP has the right to refuse an appointment based on (arbitrary physical trait) doesn't mean she will exercise it, although there are a handful of working girls with age or race restrictions. What makes a quality SP quality isn't simply her service levels; it's that she has the ability to find something attractive about almost anyone, whether that's a physical trait (nice eyes) or a personality-related one (funny guy).

As per your question: WOULD she? Probably not. Does she "have the right"? Hell yes.

 

[Aaron R]

Emm :neutral:

 

[No Lie]

And the topic has so much to do with women in GENERAL. Guys are so visual (and often mentally 12 years old*) they perpetually have trouble grasping that women do NOT put the same emphasis on looks.

Based on many chats with SPs, they are MORE likely than civilians to be genuinely open minded.

To paraphrase:

"Glad I retired, but I miss the occasions when I look at a "meh" client, and then had mind blowing sex! Ya just never know" (giggles and agreement from others)


*(I didnt say that. Great SP said that):neutral:

 

[pooh]

I could see that "equipment" size might be an issue for some! :gasp:

 

[Southern Baptist]

Better looks = better service

(anecdotal evidence only)

 

[Mirah]

I don't think I'm that attractive, but most SPs I've seen have told me I'm cute. So I guess they care about how I look.

Or they're full of codswallop.

 

[Todd]

as long as your clean and respectable dont stink then looks play no part.. but like many others have said .WE DO HAVE THE RIGHT TO REFUSE ANYONE..

 

[brwneyes]

Oh, for fuck's sake, a lady has a right to the integrity of her own body.
The rest of the discussion is just pandering bullshit.

 

[daza3033]

.... must strengthen hats!:gasp:

And you too!

 

[ViktoriaXVicious]

FFS, I just can't stand it anymore...

you're = contraction of you are
your = ownership, as in it your opinion or your ball or your right to fuck up the English language
they're = contraction of they are
their - ownership, i.e. they own the ball, it's their opinion and their right to fuck up the English language.

There, I said it! Now I'm going to bed so I don't wake up cranky.

 

[Jaclyn]

ROTFLMFAO! :666::bad::tongue::bad::666: Thank you Lou for writing what I have been thinking for along time.

course-to take a direction or path
coarse-rough or foul language

Maybe, we should compile a list of words confused? Maybe compile the list of punctuation and structure rules as well? Sometimes, it is just painful to read.

 

[Pompal 09.]

You must have been reading my mind.

Now back to the regularly scheduled thread.

 

[dvdljns]

Obviously it is different for many SPs but I believe that looks plays little part in their agreeing to have us as a client. Its all in the demeanour.

 

[kysteves]

We're talking at cross purposes.

Let's assume that two guys are identical in every respect save for looks. Do you really think that the "hotter" or "cuter" guy doesn't get a little extra effort from the SP? Human nature, IMO.

And no, I'm not "that" guy. I'm just envious of that guy. :tongue:

 

[Buzzy]

Basically this.

Any true professional will try to put 'looks aside', but being attractive to the provider in question can't possibly hurt unless you remind her of someone or something. I'm a SC only guy, and I'm devout in my shit, shower, shave, trim, don't dress up but dress well, and pack mints or gum before I go mantra. 'A little bit of effort' and basic human decency can't hurt.