Chat How do SWs learn the tricks of the trade?

[UsefulIdiot]

I have asked a few SWs how they learned how to do their jobs, but the only answer I have had is "by watching porn", which is basically being evasive. Although I have made connections with SWs, felt close to some, it is only as a client, and I am on the outside. But there seem to be physical and psychological techniques that many use. Not true I think, but it does seem like there is some kind of manual that a lot of SWs read.

I have heard that spa managers/mamasans really do not train new MPAs in sex work. This is out of fear of law enforcement (undercover agents, or possible later charges of coercion). Perhaps it takes time before mamasans and co-workers trust each other enough to open up. As far as I can tell, most SWs go into the work voluntarily, are not victims of pimps or groomers. But I cannot see how they figure things out for themselves. I suppose it is possible that to a large extent SWs learn what to do from their clients requests and their boyfriends.

Some, perhaps most, SWs just know the physical stuff, but the really good ones know how to use psychology to keep us coming back. I could give examples, but the point of this post is to ask the guys who do have inside knowledge, how are the different SW techniques shared/disseminated? Is there a body of shared knowledge of the craft?

 

[kittyhound69]

I’ve been the victim of being a practice dummy. Lol
So with mpas and sws it’s practice, practice and more practice

 

[startbeforeIfinish]

I have asked a few SWs how they learned how to do their jobs, but the only answer I have had is "by watching porn", which is basically being evasive. Although I have made connections with SWs, felt close to some, it is only as a client, and I am on the outside. But there seem to be physical and psychological techniques that many use. Not true I think, but it does seem like there is some kind of manual that a lot of SWs read.

I have heard that spa managers/mamasans really do not train new MPAs in sex work. This is out of fear of law enforcement (undercover agents, or possible later charges of coercion). Perhaps it takes time before mamasans and co-workers trust each other enough to open up. As far as I can tell, most SWs go into the work voluntarily, are not victims of pimps or groomers. But I cannot see how they figure things out for themselves. I suppose it is possible that to a large extent SWs learn what to do from their clients requests and their boyfriends.

Some, perhaps most, SWs just know the physical stuff, but the really good ones know how to use psychology to keep us coming back. I could give examples, but the point of this post is to ask the guys who do have inside knowledge, how are the different SW techniques shared/disseminated? Is there a body of shared knowledge of the craft?

They do get set up by a friend when they are new to the country but it could be seen as pandering a serious felony so you can not talk about it.

 

[not impressed]

I have asked a few SWs how they learned how to do their jobs, but the only answer I have had is "by watching porn", which is basically being evasive. Although I have made connections with SWs, felt close to some, it is only as a client, and I am on the outside. But there seem to be physical and psychological techniques that many use. Not true I think, but it does seem like there is some kind of manual that a lot of SWs read.

I have heard that spa managers/mamasans really do not train new MPAs in sex work. This is out of fear of law enforcement (undercover agents, or possible later charges of coercion). Perhaps it takes time before mamasans and co-workers trust each other enough to open up. As far as I can tell, most SWs go into the work voluntarily, are not victims of pimps or groomers. But I cannot see how they figure things out for themselves. I suppose it is possible that to a large extent SWs learn what to do from their clients requests and their boyfriends.

Some, perhaps most, SWs just know the physical stuff, but the really good ones know how to use psychology to keep us coming back. I could give examples, but the point of this post is to ask the guys who do have inside knowledge, how are the different SW techniques shared/disseminated? Is there a body of shared knowledge of the craft?

They have multiple instructors each and every day , it’s us , we teach them , everything our SOs won’t do or stopped doing , these girls are just a blank canvas at the start ..until we get ahold of them

 

[startbeforeIfinish]

They have multiple instructors each and every day , it’s us , we teach them , everything our SOs won’t do or stopped doing , these girls are just a blank canvas at the start ..until we get ahold of them

If I like her I will say do not do that you are going to lose business. It pays also to have a good business model which some do not. Some are looking for whales and do not want to work for their money others a great and very successful. If it says good attitude to me that is promising.

 

[Flyingfox]

Sharing. Other than the sole practitioner, the girls share the stuff such as technique and clients' information. That is what they do in their spare time in the lounge room.

A smart SW will know and remember the favourite move or positions of each of their regulars. A girl once reminded me of a request I asked in the previous session. I didn't even remember. I was so very impressed.

 

[startbeforeIfinish]

Sharing. Other than the sole practitioner, the girls share the stuff such as technique and clients' information. That is what they do in their spare time in the lounge room.

A smart SW will know and remember the favourite move or positions of each of their regulars. A girl once reminded me of a request I asked in the previous session. I didn't even remember. I was so very impressed.

I knew a girl that did training girls at other spa from Boss spa. She said they never talked about prices or sex work in the lounge. They did not put out much and you could not even have a condom in the garbage the owner checked.

 

[TIppingPoint]

They have multiple instructors each and every day , it’s us , we teach them , everything our SOs won’t do or stopped doing , these girls are just a blank canvas at the start ..until we get ahold of them

So true. We teach them. And they watch that most reliable indicator, our erection, to measure if it’s working.

 

[Bustanut]

I have asked a few SWs how they learned how to do their jobs, but the only answer I have had is "by watching porn", which is basically being evasive. Although I have made connections with SWs, felt close to some, it is only as a client, and I am on the outside. But there seem to be physical and psychological techniques that many use. Not true I think, but it does seem like there is some kind of manual that a lot of SWs read.

I have heard that spa managers/mamasans really do not train new MPAs in sex work. This is out of fear of law enforcement (undercover agents, or possible later charges of coercion). Perhaps it takes time before mamasans and co-workers trust each other enough to open up. As far as I can tell, most SWs go into the work voluntarily, are not victims of pimps or groomers. But I cannot see how they figure things out for themselves. I suppose it is possible that to a large extent SWs learn what to do from their clients requests and their boyfriends.

Some, perhaps most, SWs just know the physical stuff, but the really good ones know how to use psychology to keep us coming back. I could give examples, but the point of this post is to ask the guys who do have inside knowledge, how are the different SW techniques shared/disseminated? Is there a body of shared knowledge of the craft?

I think it really depends. Sadly a number of these chicks are trafficked on the low. I haven’t heard the porn answer. Tbh, i never really asked how they were trained. I assumed it was by other chicks who have been in the game for a long period of time. I think there have been a number of threads where it was stated that the boss was the one responsible for training the girls.

 

[Lalallala]

... I haven’t heard the porn answer. Tbh, i never really asked how they were trained. I assumed it was by other chicks who have been in the game for a long period of time. I think there have been a number of threads where it was stated that the boss was the one responsible for training the girls.

Today the mpa told me that while looking into the mirror during our session, it was like watching a porn movie.

I'm not sure how to take that...

 

[Spawarrior99]

I knew a girl that did training girls at other spa from Boss spa. She said they never talked about prices or sex work in the lounge. They did not put out much and you could not even have a condom in the garbage the owner checked.

I knew a girl that did training girls... WHO THE FUCK ARE YOU AGAIN?

 

[Spawarrior99]

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I think it really depends. Sadly a number of these chicks are trafficked on the low. I haven’t heard the porn answer. Tbh, i never really asked how they were trained. I assumed it was by other chicks who have been in the game for a long period of time. I think there have been a number of threads where it was stated that the boss was the one responsible for training the girls.

HOW DO YOU KNOW THE GIRLS TRAFFICKED? PLEASE EXPLIAN THIS CRUCIAL QUESTION .. LETS SEE HOW U ANSWER - DIME A DOZEN SHIT HEADS ON MASSAGE PLANET TRYING TO BLOW SMOKE UP YOUR ASS -

WELCOME TO THE JUNGLE BUSTANUT -
YOU JUST GRADUATED TO MID LEVEL STATUS ON MASSAGE PLANET - HOW DOES THAT MAKE YOU FEEL?

YOU BEST JUDGE THOSE THAT HAVE INTELLIGENCE, LESS THE BUSTANUT DUDE.......

 

[VinnyBulbarino]

The MPA’s and SP’a who’ve opened up to me have all entered the industry via a close friend. Starts off as a way to make some quick cash, and then they get deeper into the biz. Their close friends help teach them some tricks of the trade, and the rest they learn on their own. Side note, some of the ladies I know also have a high sex drive, so they figure why not get paid to get laid, haha!

 

[Bustanut]

Today the mpa told me that while looking into the mirror during our session, it was like watching a porn movie.

I'm not sure how to take that...

I would take that as a compliment. Perhaps that indicated she likes watching porn and enjoyed what she was watching live in the room.

 

[Bustanut]

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HOW DO YOU KNOW THE GIRLS TRAFFICKED? PLEASE EXPLIAN THIS CRUCIAL QUESTION .. LETS SEE HOW U ANSWER - DIME A DOZEN SHIT HEADS ON MASSAGE PLANET TRYING TO BLOW SMOKE UP YOUR ASS -

WELCOME TO THE JUNGLE BUSTANUT -
YOU JUST GRADUATED TO MID LEVEL STATUS ON MASSAGE PLANET - HOW DOES THAT MAKE YOU FEEL?

YOU BEST JUDGE THOSE THAT HAVE INTELLIGENCE, LESS THE BUSTANUT DUDE.......

LOL! I could totally ban you from this thread but it adds some humour to my day. CAMH fam, check back in before it’s too late. I’m starting to think you get a hard on everytime you reply to ppl on here.

You reply back….days, weeks, sometimes months later. Which spas have you even been to? The doctor’s office and alky anonymous doesn’t count dawg.

Jungle? Brother, if you want a banana just ask. Mine isnt for sale but if you go to church and Jarvis area I heard you can get the back door special for free .

 

[Bustanut]

The MPA’s and SP’a who’ve opened up to me have all entered the industry via a close friend. Starts off as a way to make some quick cash, and then they get deeper into the biz. Their close friends help teach them some tricks of the trade, and the rest they learn on their own. Side note, some of the ladies I know also have a high sex drive, so they figure why not get paid to get laid, haha!

The skillset they learn on their own is what takes them to the next level. I find that when an mpa does something different and unique it warrants a second visit or even a third. 5th visit they enter my rotation. Anything more than 10 visits which is very very rare they enter my starting 5.

Which makes me think of another tip for mileage be different in the session and try something new. One guy on here, I’m not gonna say who LOL. You know who you are reading this dawg. DM’d me and told me he started to suck the girl’s toes. According to him she was in heaven and it opened up an exclusive menu. Personally I ain’t willing to suck toes but hey every one licks I mean likes LOL something different.

Bro, high sex drive ? Those are the best ones. Like they enjoying the session none of this jack hammer bs “ok baby too long you cum now you cum now”. Some chicks I know prefer to cum first. They won’t even let me Bustanut until they go. Life is grand homie.

 

[VinnyBulbarino]

The skillset they learn on their own is what takes them to the next level. I find that when an mpa does something different and unique it warrants a second visit or even a third. 5th visit they enter my rotation. Anything more than 10 visits which is very very rare they enter my starting 5.

Which makes me think of another tip for mileage be different in the session and try something new. One guy on here, I’m not gonna say who LOL. You know who you are reading this dawg. DM’d me and told me he started to suck the girl’s toes. According to him she was in heaven and it opened up an exclusive menu. Personally I ain’t willing to suck toes but hey every one licks I mean likes LOL something different.

Bro, high sex drive ? Those are the best ones. Like they enjoying the session none of this jack hammer bs “ok baby too long you cum now you cum now”. Some chicks I know prefer to cum first. They won’t even let me Bustanut until they go. Life is grand homie.

Life is totally grand Brother, it’s what we make of it. As discussed in the YMMV thread, how you present yourself and how you treat the lady will do wonders for your visits. I was explaining what sensuality means to me on another thread, and when the woman gets into the session (no faking or trying to rush the time) that’s the best feeling. When she genuinely has an orgasm, gets soaking wet from your touch and enjoys playing.

Another point I forgot to touch on. The women might learn the basic protocols for this trade, but it’s their personality and personal boundaries that seperate them from the crowd. These days there are too many providers who don’t give a shit, and it shows in their service. Finding the service queens is rare and we have to treat them as such.

Sucking toes eh? Hmmm…maybe if we shower together first and she cleans those bad boys well, lol! Lord knows the filth that’s on spa room floors

 

[Bustanut]

Vinnie, one of better responses on here without a doubt brother.

Life is definitely what we make of it. Touché to that. Too many ppl feel sorry for themselves and victimize themselves. Like yo, life is too short for that.

I can relate when that pussy starts dripping different once they climax. Too many suckas on here saying I can tell she enjoyed it? What? Dawg these clowns be talking about the girls who give it up to anyone and everyone. You gotta come correct if you want to be treated like royalty.

To your point too many providers who don’t give a shit. Finding those gems which are really rare is ultra hard. TBH, I haven’t seen or heard about too many of the ones I know about on here. That’s how I know ppl are keeping their best kept secret to themselves. Can’t blame em cause fk, I wouldn’t share mine with anyone. A lot of money and time invested into finding those ones. Trial and error into spas that don’t even get promoted on here. ****hint hint***

You know what they say never say never. LOL!!!!! That’s a good tip in itself try something new. My guy on here the toe sucker, told me the girl always wore toe rings and had immaculate feet. She was always one to be showing them off. Who knows maybe when I’m 80 I’ll try a taste. .

 

[VinnyBulbarino]

Vinnie, one of better responses on here without a doubt brother.

Life is definitely what we make of it. Touché to that. Too many ppl feel sorry for themselves and victimize themselves. Like yo, life is too short for that.

I can relate when that pussy starts dripping different once they climax. Too many suckas on here saying I can tell she enjoyed it? What? Dawg these clowns be talking about the girls who give it up to anyone and everyone. You gotta come correct if you want to be treated like royalty.

To your point too many providers who don’t give a shit. Finding those gems which are really rare is ultra hard. TBH, I haven’t seen or heard about too many of the ones I know about on here. That’s how I know ppl are keeping their best kept secret to themselves. Can’t blame em cause fk, I wouldn’t share mine with anyone. A lot of money and time invested into finding those ones. Trial and error into spas that don’t even get promoted on here. ****hint hint***

You know what they say never say never. LOL!!!!! That’s a good tip in itself try something new. My guy on here the toe sucker, told me the girl always wore toe rings and had immaculate feet. She was always one to be showing them off. Who knows maybe when I’m 80 I’ll try a taste. .

Don’t worry Brother, at 80 I’m sure we won’t be able to taste anything anyways, haha! We’ll have to resort to toe sucking in case the viagara doesnt kick in

You’re absolutely correct, the best MPA’s and SP’s are probably not even discussed on MP. I don’t mind sharing since there’s no exclusivity between myself and any working lady. I also go off of instinct before sharing any of the ladies I see. Some of the women I see only work 2 or 3 days a week, so they’re not running themselves ragged. It shows in the effort they put into the sessions.

I understand that these are working women, and they see multiple clients a day, it’s their job to make us feel special etc, but what makes us so special? Certain things women don’t fake, and it shows in the way their body responds to us. I think you and I (and some other Gents on this forum) know how to treat a lady, and the proof is in the pudding.

 

[startbeforeIfinish]

Don’t worry Brother, at 80 I’m sure we won’t be able to taste anything anyways, haha! We’ll have to resort to toe sucking in case the viagara doesnt kick in

You’re absolutely correct, the best MPA’s and SP’s are probably not even discussed on MP. I don’t mind sharing since there’s no exclusivity between myself and any working lady. I also go off of instinct before sharing any of the ladies I see. Some of the women I see only work 2 or 3 days a week, so they’re not running themselves ragged. It shows in the effort they put into the sessions.

I understand that these are working women, and they see multiple clients a day, it’s their job to make us feel special etc, but what makes us so special? Certain things women don’t fake, and it shows in the way their body responds to us. I think you and I (and some other Gents on this forum) know how to treat a lady, and the proof is in the pudding.

You guys seem similar that is good. I come from many generations back to early Canada. Being familiar with the dialect you expressions like "use your noodle or bean" meaning they are common inexpensive foods so it means your brain you are thinking, saving. The common basics in sex are where it is at. I am not spending big money to suck feet even if the girl likes it, I am the one paying for the service.