MPAs or SPs in real life

[NotALurker]

Anybody here have experiences seeing MPA/SP outside the spa before? It could be anything like deliberately meeting up with them outside the spa, or it could be something like seeing them around in public, "meeting" them at a social gathering or situation where you're forced to interact, seeing on them on social media, etc. What happened?

I've seen a couple of them out in public before (verified at least one), and I'm pretty sure I saw a Premier girl at a King West club once (or at least one who looked like her). There's also one girl I had a session with before who's friends with somebody I know on social media and regularly comments on their posts. Never been in a situation before where I was actually forced to interact. One girl told me a story of how one of her boyfriend's friends turned out to be a guy she jerked off before. Not giving any names for obvious reasons.

Also curious to hear what the ladies have to say!

EDIT: I don't interact with them or bother them at all, just asking for stories is all.

 

[thedirtyone]

They're people with lives. Seeing them in public is not that big of a deal. Just don't be a dick about it.

 

[cupcrazy]

MPAs don't tell people what you do at massage parlous. So respect their privacies as they did with yours.

 

[NotALurker]

They're people with lives. Seeing them in public is not that big of a deal. Just don't be a dick about it.

Jeez I'm not a dick about it at all

 

[vanelric]

I don't have any stories myself, but girls have told me stories where a client will see them out in the wild and basically yell "Hey MPA name!" and the girl will be thinking wtf don't use my working name. I've had one girl say yeah if you see me out and about feel free to say hi just don't call me "MPA name" and I've had another girl say "oh there's this event happening on the weekend, you should check it out! But if you see me, you don't know me."

 

[dmarts]

I'm pretty sure I saw Cici Palmer on the Bloor line getting on at Dufferin. She was briefly working at House of Lancaster as she was advertising it on social media at the time. All the old and moderately old dudes, myself included, were sitting at her end of the train trying to stare through her clothes.

 

[Dotanuki]

Hasn't this been discussed before? Just asking

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[Happyman]

I imagine the common practice is not to say hello to each other unless both alone; it would be odd to say anything if the other person is accompanying friends or family. I am sure most MPA understand the sensitivity.
At one time, I saw a girl in sexy dress in a Mall and an hour later, I saw the same person in a spa. She did not know I saw her and I did not say anything. This is a small world, meeting a MPA on a street is nothing special.

 

[Ursus]

Book a girl 5 times and she will become your 'friend'.

Simple as fuck.

 

[Happyman]

That could be true. I would stop seeing a girl if I found no "improvement in friendship" upon my second visit. If I see someone more than twice, likely a "friendship" could develop.

 

[Boston Man Chowder]

I've seen one at a diner near the airport with her boyfriend. She let me go ahead of her in the line while waiting for her man who had just gone into the washroom. We both knew. We just had the decency not to bring it up and we took a very casual approach. The next time I saw her for a session, we openly discussed it. The few times I've seen an MPA outside of her workplace, not once have we ever discussed anything that involves the spa. I treat her as a completely different person outside that world even though our business relationship stays the same.

 

[OG_funguy]

...The few times I've seen an MPA outside of her workplace, not once have we ever discussed anything that involves the spa. I treat her as a completely different person outside that world even though our business relationship stays the same.

To each their own but at the end of the day, she's not a completely different person outside the spa so I don't see any reason to treat her as such. That's what she does for a living and I'm not saying this with derogatory intent. Like you, I've seen a few outside their workplace but we don't purposely avoid talking about the spa. We don't necessarily get into stupid details but I have no problem asking how her day went at work just like she may ask me the same. Sometimes they like to vent and sometimes the conversation drifts to other aspects of spa life such as their friends, what they would rather do for a living but can't (for various reasons), etc. Now, there have been times where I was an MPA in social settings where she's with people that have no idea what she does and of course, we don't talk openly about it then but when we're alone, no big deal.

 

[Boston Man Chowder]

To each their own but at the end of the day, she's not a completely different person outside the spa so I don't see any reason to treat her as such. That's what she does for a living and I'm not saying this with derogatory intent. Like you, I've seen a few outside their workplace but we don't purposely avoid talking about the spa. We don't necessarily get into stupid details but I have no problem asking how her day went at work just like she may ask me the same. Sometimes they like to vent and sometimes the conversation drifts to other aspects of spa life such as their friends, what they would rather do for a living but can't (for various reasons), etc. Now, there have been times where I was an MPA in social settings where she's with people that have no idea what she does and of course, we don't talk openly about it then but when we're alone, no big deal.

Oh of course it comes up in conversations provided it's just between the two of us. It can't be avoided. However, like my own job, I'd rather we keep talks about it to a minimum. Even if the spa is where we met and where I see her (no one specific) most, I know she has a lot more depth to her and what she does for a living doesn't define her as a person. I don't knock her hustle but how many opportunities will I get to see an MPA outside her work? I'd like to make it count by seeing a different side of her. Now I've read your stories and the dilemmas you've faced while navigating through this crazy world. Kudos to you for getting to make what most of us can only dream of doing, into somewhat of a reality.

 

[therealcole]

Jeez I'm not a dick about it at all

Th e comment was "not to be a dick about it" not that you are being a dick about it. Is comprehension a lost art? ffs

 

[Happyman]

Some MPA enjoys her work and wants to make it a life time career. That's what a popular MPA in Flirt told me, she makes $100000 a year and will continue to do it say for the next ten years.

 

[OG_funguy]

... I know she has a lot more depth to her and what she does for a living doesn't define her as a person.

So true, couldn't agree more...

 

[Hangdai]

Most are so use to lying about everything to every guy they like on the job that it must spill over to their real life. They can't help it, their job is their life.
Guys like ourselves want to believe and think the best of them, but in the end, it's a big game to them, and we're just the pawns on the board.

 

[OG_funguy]

Most are so use to lying about everything to every guy they like on the job that it must spill over to their real life. They can't help it, their job is their life.
Guys like ourselves want to believe and think the best of them, but in the end, it's a big game to them, and we're just the pawns on he board.

You sound like Ursus now...

 

[Hangdai]

You sound like Ursus now...

That’s because I am Ursus.

 

[OG_funguy]

That’s because I am Ursus.

Oh, I thought you were KJ...my bad