Privacy Lesson for MPAs (+ clients)

[Raconteur]

Over a year ago I made a post about how I had found social media profiles for many of the MPAs I see (their personal social media, not business accounts). A lot of people didn’t believe me. But the girls I found did not even include thoss that have been recently exposed on this board.

So there is a lesson: usually if an MPA has not been exposed it’s because people are choosing not to expose her. I believe most MPAs have clients who have figured out their real identity. One reason I believe this is that figuring out an MPA’s identity is surprisingly easy to do. Not in all cases (sometimes it is very hard) but usually if you learn about one you will learn about others without even trying.

So ladies if you want to remain anonymous don’t kid yourself. Using a pseudonym and telling a couple fake stories about yourself won’t cut it. Possibly nothing will, especially if you have any kind of friendship or outside-the-spa contact with people in the business (clients, other girls, managers, whatever). But at least you can be a lot more careful than most girls in this business are.

Keep in mind that even if you don’t get exposed on a website you will still interact with nosy clients, coworkers and civilians. It is much easier for any of them to figure out who you are than you have imagined. Probably some of them already have without you realizing (I figured out the identity of several of my regular girls without ever telling them).

I don’t expect anything to change. Girls want friends in the business and they recruit each other from civilian life, and they want multiple channels of communication with clients for business purposes. So the temptation to give out information is always there. Plus, even if you don’t have contact with anyone ever outside of the spa, and even if you lie to every client and coworker about every detail about yourself, sometimes people can still figure out the truth (I’ve done it). But at least you can be more realistic about how much effort it will take if you want to have a shot at keeping your identity secret, if that is important to you.

 

[Shaved]

I’ve been surprised with girls dropping their real names, talking about their cars (license plates, eh?) or where they live....and this is in the first session.

 

[Pay2Play]

I’ve been surprised with girls dropping their real names, talking about their cars (license plates, eh?) or where they live....and this is in the first session.

They are naturally insecure so of course they talk about such things.

 

[OG_funguy]

I think the OP watched one too many 'Taken' movies. OP to MPA - "If you suck my dick now that'll be the end of it. I will not look for you, I will not pursue you, but if you don't, I will look for you, I will find you and I will... identify you."

You know what, I have a very particular set of skills too, skills I aquired from a long hobbying career. So instead of all the highly classified spy shit, I do something else...I just ask them.

 

[Dogear]

its simple you wanna be anonymous dont have a public profile even now there still girls with public profiles im sitting on waiting to reveal get a clue ladies

 

[henricas]

fuck'em, pay'em, leave'em ..... anything else ??? I don't give a fuck,
if you do you have too much free time

 

[Tor_Msg]

It’s always PFL (Pay, Fuck and Leave). Don’t have time to ask for their fake name even !!!!

 

[TheKWguy]

I think the OP watched one too many 'Taken' movies. OP to MPA - "If you suck my dick now that'll be the end of it. I will not look for you, I will not pursue you, but if you don't, I will look for you, I will find you and I will... identify you."

You know what, I have a very particular set of skills too, skills I aquired from a long hobbying career. So instead of all the highly classified spy shit, I do something else...I just ask them.

Chuck Noris checks under his bed for Liam Neeson before going to sleep. That dude is serious hardcore badass

 

[JaimeWolf]

^Well he did mentor Jedi and train Batman, so...

 

[jsmith]

I have never tried to find out the "real name " of any of the ladies I have seen, which is 95+% for a simple (and hopefull good) massage and (hopefully) HE. Sometimes I have been offered more, and partaken, and sometimes I have been offered more and said "Maybe next time".

On independent MA I used to see [don't know where she is now, or where she went to] actually left a small stack on mail - credit card statement, utility bills, etc - on a shelf in the 2nd bedroom she had set up with her massage table. I guess I could have looked, but I didn't. Would have been embarassing if I was going through her mail when she came into the room. But, at that time, I knew where she actually lived. It was right there! She made no bones about it. That's where she lived alone.

So, not all MAs are trying to keep their real identity secret, but I'm sure most are.

But I do think that any hobbyist that would expose any MA's real ID is truly scummy. If you thought you got some kind of raw deal or poor service from some MA, then you can tell others about it here. But, outing a MA's real ID as retaliation, or for any other reason, is in comedian Steve Martin's words "the death penalty for parking tickets"