Sex is Sex. But money is money.

[Deyannis]

Sex is sex. But money is money.

You need to google my title (the article should be by a Svetlana Z) and tell me if this will change your perspective on the women you see.

I have to admit that I thought the writer was recounting my experiences with her for most of our outings. It's disheartening to know this is how I am perceived.

As well, I came from poverty, do very well now, and it just bothers me think I'm setting a woman up to live in luxury by the time she's thirty. I struggled badly until I was older than that.

Any thoughts?

 

[Justine2016]

There are some true points in the article but the article is biased, not all escorts can earn 1000 an hour as the market will only be able to support a limited amount. But they can earn a lot if you take the girls at Pure/Perla and if they see 10 guys a week and receive 200 per visit they can make 88000 in cash in a year which is the equivalent of about 160 K in taxable income. A lot of the problem is a lot of the girls also blow the cash very quickly and don't save for the future.

 

[JEG]

It is a business, plain and simple. Most guys are buying sex and if you repeat with the girl are buying companionship also.
Justine2016:
I would suggest that even the girls that don't earn $200/ session make that kind of money. Some ads suggest the girls can earn much more per day. I would venture the figure for the average can be easily over 100k. Most get into the business because they are desperate for money, either they grew up in a poor home or circumstances led them to this occupation. Once the money starts to flow either they have not set a goal or the goals that they set for themselves get pushed back. The smart girls are the ones that start out with a game plan and stick to it.

 

[topo112]

It is a business, plain and simple. Most guys are buying sex and if you repeat with the girl are buying companionship also.
Justine2016:
I would suggest that even the girls that don't earn $200/ session make that kind of money. Some ads suggest the girls can earn much more per day. I would venture the figure for the average can be easily over 100k. Most get into the business because they are desperate for money, either they grew up in a poor home or circumstances led them to this occupation. Once the money starts to flow either they have not set a goal or the goals that they set for themselves get pushed back. The smart girls are the ones that start out with a game plan and stick to it.

They are like professional sports players, they only have a few years to make as much money as possible since ,after a good ten years in business ,they start aging and new hotter women take over. If they don't learn a skill that pays at least a third of what they make now then they are in trouble since they get used to an extravagant life stile, that only very rich guys can offer.

 

[bbtpongs]

A lot of the problem is a lot of the girls also blow the cash very quickly and don't save for the future.

Alas, I've seen that many, many times.

Dare I say it happens as well to not a few gentlemen who "hobby" perhaps?

 

[playfulfun]

When I first started going to Perla I got to know several of the young women quite well.
3 of them where going to school at the time and averaged $1500 per week without offering extras.
These 3 girls worked on average 2 - 3 shifts per week and saw on average 5 - 7 clients per shift.
All 3 have left the industry and now work in their chosen fields. (Smart)
Some of the other ladies are still in the business, some have no plan but some are smart and
have invested their money into property, or stocks , etc.
They are like the rest of us some waste money and some invest.
No one really knows how long they will have a job.
I just enjoy each lady and hope that she has fun with me.

 

[Roman]

I guess when you started at Perla there were alot less girls offering extras. I think this was back in 2013 but not sure. Now there are many girls that do. How times have changed.
There are some girls at Premier that have been in the industry for many years. They still look good but you're right, I hope they have a plan to leave. These girls must have seen changes through the years from no extras to offering extras to stay competitive and keep a job.

 

[Beejayluv]

Very few of the long time working girls have an exit strategy. They keep throwing their money up their noses and into their bodies.

 

[Ursus]

I only have experience in getting to know the Asian prostitutes. Most of the asian girls that enter the industry come from wealthy families, so I don't think it is an issue with savings and what they will do after they leave the industry. Even if they blow their money and leave the industry with little to show, they will be fine. Their families and their contacts will see to it that they never go without. And Asian girls, raised by Asian parents, are taught to save and think about the future. So, they will be fine.

The stereotype portrayed by the media that these girls are sex slaves or exploited or needy is ridiculous. Most of the Asian prostitutes I have met have more money before entering the industry than the majority of their clients.

I don't think the majority of girls do drugs. In percentage terms, maybe 7 - 8% of the girls I have visited in my hobbying career have asked me to supply them with drugs. That isn't a much different usage rate than the typical population in Toronto.

 

[JEG]

I only have experience in getting to know the Asian prostitutes. Most of the asian girls that enter the industry come from wealthy families, so I don't think it is an issue with savings and what they will do after they leave the industry. Even if they blow their money and leave the industry with little to show, they will be fine. Their families and their contacts will see to it that they never go without. And Asian girls, raised by Asian parents, are taught to save and think about the future. So, they will be fine.

The stereotype portrayed by the media that these girls are sex slaves or exploited or needy is ridiculous. Most of the Asian prostitutes I have met have more money before entering the industry than the majority of their clients.

I don't think the majority of girls do drugs. In percentage terms, maybe 7 - 8% of the girls I have visited in my hobbying career have asked me to supply them with drugs. That isn't a much different usage rate than the typical population in Toronto.

I believe you are bang on in regards to Asians, I don't think those numbers translate to other backgrounds, including the use of drugs.

 

[Ursus]

I believe you are bang on in regards to Asians, I don't think those numbers translate to other backgrounds, including the use of drugs.

Yeah. I suppose white hookers would use drugs more often than Asian hookers. Same with tattoos. Most Asian hookers don't have tattoos because it is seen as ugly in Chinese culture to mark your skin like that.

 

[Hangdai]

Same with pussy hair, most newcomers from mainland China have kept their original hairy bush.

Apparently, a clean shaven lady is seen as a slut.

 

[Alibaba2016]

$80k per year? you kidding?
i stumbled upon instagram of a girl advertisting on bp recently and she uploaded a pic with $20,000 cash saying that it was her week's work

 

[Justine2016]

$80k per year? you kidding?
i stumbled upon instagram of a girl advertisting on bp recently and she uploaded a pic with $20,000 cash saying that it was her week's work

That is an advertisement and is not a realistic number of what a girl can earn, only a very select number of girls can earn that. If a girl was charging 200 per client she would need to see 100 clients in the week to earn 20,000.

 

[JEG]

That is an advertisement and is not a realistic number of what a girl can earn, only a very select number of girls can earn that. If a girl was charging 200 per client she would need to see 100 clients in the week to earn 20,000.

She would have to be tender in more ways than one to do 100 johns.

Somewhere between $1500 - $3000 is a good figure, that is cash.

 

[JEG]

Yeah. I suppose white hookers would use drugs more often than Asian hookers. Same with tattoos. Most Asian hookers don't have tattoos because it is seen as ugly in Chinese culture to mark your skin like that.

If I am not mistaken, some Asians cultures have a much different perspective in regards to sex for hire.
According to my wife, there are even differences between home grown and import whores, I wonder if it is the fact that the imported ones come to better themselves and are more goal driven.

 

[topo112]

Yeah. I suppose white hookers would use drugs more often than Asian hookers. Same with tattoos. Most Asian hookers don't have tattoos because it is seen as ugly in Chinese culture to mark your skin like that.

So if a chinese woman is covered with tattoos she's obviously a whore?

 

[playfulfun]

A friend told me about a girl at Muse who asked him to download an app and subscribe to her channel.
Some of these girls are trying to make money just about anyway they can from their clients.

 

[playfulfun]

I guess when you started at Perla there were alot less girls offering extras. I think this was back in 2013 but not sure. Now there are many girls that do. How times have changed.
There are some girls at Premier that have been in the industry for many years. They still look good but you're right, I hope they have a plan to leave. These girls must have seen changes through the years from no extras to offering extras to stay competitive and keep a job.

Yes it was 2013
There was more girls not offering extras than offering.
Plus many of the girls at Platinum offered freebies or for a small tip.
Times have changed.

 

[Ursus]

So if a chinese woman is covered with tattoos she's obviously a whore?

Two things I hate on Asian girls - tattoos and fake tits. I don't like being around Asian girls who have tattoos. To me, that's like wearing a white dress shirt with a ketchup stain on the front. Just looks horrible.

It is not a usual occurance for a Chinese girl, born in China, to put tattoos on her body. Her parents, her co-workers and everyone she comes into contact with would look down at her. They would wonder why she put tattoos upon herself and they would think she is an 'easy' girl who has a 'dark' lifestyle.

The girl in my avatar is Chinese and has an arm band tattoo. It doesn't look bad, but overall, I hate tattoos. If I ever brought a girl to meet my Mom and that girl had tattoos, my Mom would instantly think she was a whore. Funny thing though, I have introduced a few hookers to my Mother. She knew they were hookers. Didn't seem to bother her.