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[lagaria]

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I'm having an unusual experience (for me) and I'm wondering if any of you have already been through this and can let me know what's going to happen.

I've been going to a certain MPA about once a week for the last couple of months. The first session was terrific and, to my surprise, it keeps getting better each time I go. We have reached the maximum menu choices, but the most unusual part of the sessions is that it's non-stop DFK and GFE type caressing.

The last few times, she's told me that she didn't want me to leave. Of course, you might say, why would she want to turn the clock off?! Twice, she's persuaded me to get undressed a second time after we'd finished our session. However, she tried to turn down the money I offered for these "overtime" sessions. The last time, she outright refused the money.

The last time, after session one, she asked me to hang out with her. We ate chocolates and watched TV in the waiting area. When another customer came in, she hid me in the "utility room". We made out during the TV, which led to the overtime session. After a couple of hours of this, I had to go. She gave me her number after asking whether I'd like to meet her at her place.

The problem is that she speaks very little english. We can communicate about some things, but not about anything that requires any subtlety.

I haven't called her number yet. I am tempted to.

While I am no Mel Gibson, I've not suffered from a lack of female attention in my life. However, this girl is at least 15 years younger than I am.

I'm undecided whether:
She actually likes me and wants to see me away from the MPShe wants to see me "professionally" at her placeThis is all part of stringing me along as a regular customer
I've been around a few blocks, but I'll admit I'm unsure about this one. Anybody been through this routine, only to find that it was just a way of extracting some extra cash from you?

 

[Rawrs[: Munchkin]

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You left out a fourth possibility.

4. She needs a husband to get legal status in Canada.

This is just a guess of course, but the lack of profficiency in the language is a possible clue. Go carefullly. Maybe your first pick is actually correct.

 

[LambChops]

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Bud Plug you're smarter than that.

I definitely would see her at her place with an empty wallet, and see where it goes. But the question is what are "you" looking for. Because this could effect your decision.

Be very careful

 

[DanP]

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If you were to go to Bosnia and find an old mine field, running willy nilly through it would be safer than where i fear you may be headed.

Caution seems to be a word that springs to mind.

 

[Real Reds the world power]

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bud,

i would also suggest that you tread carefully. these situations can always be tricky. i've had similar encounters with SP's outside the 'work place'. i would suggest that if you get any inclination that she is looking for something from you... i.e. financial gain, legal status, etc... then perhaps you should re-consider things, and walk away.

on the other hand, most of my casual relationships with SP's outside of the normal SP client arrangement have been quite exciting and a lot of fun. not to mention free sex! ha. anyway, good luck.

- john

 

[x93SilentTouch]

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I'm with Horney Senior on this one.
Which may or may not be a good thing for you.

 

[Shil]

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Bud, I've had a similar experience.
In fact, am still in one where the bottom line is that she doesn't want anything from me other than friendship. I was suspicious at first, but played along for a bit to see where it would go, and as I said; all she wanted was a friend.
I know she would like to see me more often than I can give her and I can see this becoming an issue. We have gotten together on this basis for a little over a year now but if I don't see her once every two weeks she is e-mailing me asking me to call and come and see her. I fear that this means a lot more to her than it does to me and I don't want to hurt her feelings but I fear that her expectations are begining to exceed anything I believe I have ever promised.
Everyone will talk to you about the potential ways the lady is or may be trying to take advantage of you. Be prepared to understand that in the end, it may be you that is taking advantage of her and so becareful. Try not to raise any expectations that you can't or ultimately won't be able to live up to. The one that will be hurt, is the one reaching out for friendship.

 

[na3oush]

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Well said Shades. My hat goes off to you for your compassion and understanding.

 

[Trick23]

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The "husband so she can stay in the country" theory is the one that makes the most sense. OR she is part of some identity theft scam going on where they take your social insurance # and your credit cards and empty your bank account and take a mortgage on your house and leave you broke and penniless. OR there is always the possibility that she loves you so much that she just fucks you whenever you want, and when she's not having hot steamy sex with you she is either preparing a nine course meal or clipping your toe nails.

 

[yogazen]

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I'll take that one for $200 Alex.

 

[Elaine M]

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I'm a bit skeptical...... not easy to form much of a connection with a language barrier. But so long as you are aware that there may be other motives and you consider what you are looking for.

 

[Pravin R]

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All of the above may be right but she may just be lonely. I don't care who you are but once you have had several sessions of GFE with a MPA there will be "feelings" on both sides. MPA's can get lonely as anyone else and in this profession they become very desperate for "normal'companionship and will latch on to anyone who is nice to them. There can be problems as I doubt you want a long term relationship with a MPA Breaking up will be messy . You also have to accept that she is a sex worker and will continue to do so to make money. Can you deal with that ? Second you indicate that she "hid" you when she did a customer - if the place gets raided and you are there hiding you may have a lot to explain and may be charged as a found in.
My advice is be upfront with the lady and be honest with her if there is no future and you get that across to her then at least she was warned


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[jaysetsfire]

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Well, I am in exactly the same situation at the moment. The lady is the boss at the AMP I frequent, limited english, but improving day by day. She is VERY affectionate with me, and it has progressed to the point that when I book an hour, we don't have time for the massage at all. During the last session she dropped the 'L' word on me. The context and usage lead me to believe that she knew exactly what she was saying.

I find her very attractive, and I'd marry her in a second if I weren't already committed ( actually, maybe I SHOULD be committed). Anyway, I am worried about hurting this lady, more than I am worried about hurting my spouse. She is more vlunerable, and certainly more loveable.

I have invited her to join me on a business trip, during which I'll try to clarify her intentions, and mine.

Tread carefully, and try to do no harm.

rgent

 

[xXSmilezxX]

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I agree with what others have said in that your first step is deciding what BUD wants. If you're not interested in any type of relationship then tell her up front before either of you gets (more) involved emotionally.

If you decide you DO want some type of relationship (freindship, romance, etc) then you *must* clear the air RE: finances. The quickest way to do that is tell her you like her and won't see her any more professionally. If she's performing some type of eleborate cash grab her interest in you will wane VERY quickly.

At one point I had an MPA hand back my money and tell me she only took cash from clients not friends. I was very flattered, felt the same way and we've been REAL friends ever since.

The older I get the more I realize that human chemistry is a strange thing. It's possible to come up with a million reasons why you wouldn't want to date somebody:

Too old, too young, too tall, too short, not smart enough, too smart etc etc.

As long as the basic chemistry is there, I personally believe ALL of those reasons are nothing more than excuses.

WRT age:

My Dad is 67 and has been married for 15 years to somebody who's 38. Do the math, coz I'm 40. She told me age has NEVER been a consideration and while I didn't believe her for a long time I was wrong.

WRT language:

I had a friend who dated a number of Chinese exchange students in university. He said it was difficult communicating at times, but when they cuddled up in front of the TV he knew EXACTLY how they felt.

Anyway good luck, and let us know how you make out

 

[The Grappler]

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No, she hid me when another customer arrived. However, a different girl took the customer. She didn't take any other customers while I was there (thereby passing up money - you've got to admit that's enough to get you thinking)



I agree. But before we get to that I have to decide whether or not to meet her at her place. That's why I wanted to hear about possible scams, and more importantly, actual scams that massageplanet.netites have been caught in.

 

[Foxy]

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Don't look a gift horse in the mouth.
If you like her, you might be in for a nice experience.
(Unless she's a tough-looking middle-aged Shanghai lady with acne scars and a big bosom)

 

[Tayt]

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When I first started my hobbying 10 years ago I met an mp owner named Jenny. I saw Jenny and many of the girls she hired as mpas over a 4 year period. We were very friendly and intimate together and altough she was married she was clear to me that I was one of several boyfriends/clients. Not only did I spend alot of time talking about relationships in general, but also about the young women she hired...kind of 'inside scoop' stuff. I asked her about dating possibilities with the girls she hired and the only time I heard her be completely judgemental is when she told me "They are only interested in money." Jenny is from mainlaind China as were many of the women she hired. I held her opinion in high regard because she was not only an mpa, but she also did the hiring and firing within an mp. Whenever I started to fall for an mpa I remembered those words. There is so much complexity within the business we participate in... all sorts of nuanced relationship subtleties...but I believe what started as business ends as business. I don't mean to sound harsh but that's how I've protected myself all these years.

 

[Ex-Cop on Final Bust]

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I would first take a look at yourself. Are you good looking, do you have money, do you drive a nice car...? Most of these girls are already making enough money that they don't need to worry about the present but don't forget that looks fade and a lot of these girls know this. She might just be trying to secure her future with YOU !
It all comes down to - what do you want? Do you want a relationship with an MP? If you do can you convert her to a non MP status? A lot of if's and but's involved in your situation.
Good Luck.

 

[jacovkss2]

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I just talked to her over the phone. We agreed to meet at her place tomorrow evening (she's not working that day). Interestingly, my call was blocked, but she answered anyway (most SPs these days won't accept blocked calls). Not sure what to conclude about that.

I have a built in "escape hatch", as there's somewhere else I have to be later on that evening.

I'll let you guys know what happens.

 

[- lola is lovestoned x3]

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don't waste ur time