What does she look like ???

[curiousone64]

A common question that all of us ask a lady (before we see them), is "what do you look like"?

As guys, we are curious....and I will admit that I've been in the same bracket of asking the lady "what do you look like"?

I had a visit with one lady this week and she brought up the point of men asking her "what does she look like" and she admitted that it's a real turn-off to her. She said that when she hears that, she doesn't feel like seeing that person, and instead terminating the call/text ASAP, and finding someone who is not so materialistic. She said that men should be "surprised" when they come to see her, and not base everything on looks.

I can tell you that there are "managers" out there who make sure that they hire only "pretty girls", as they feel men should enjoy a massage from a pretty woman. At the same time, they don't want to asked "how tall are you/what's your weight/measurements, etc". They want to ensure you that she's pretty and that she's pleasant on the eyes.

At the same time we are asking them about looks, they are getting asked if they offer undraped/HE's/or more"....again, a turn-off for a lot of the women out there.

Just some feedback to consider.

PS: The lady that I saw was NOT Chinese or Asian or White.....she was medium sized, pleasant on the eyes, and worth seeing again....

 

[Albertaman]

Yes, these questions are brutal and they dehumanize.

On the other hand guys don't have infinite funds or infinite insurance to go and just try out a $94.50 or a $99.75 one hour massage with an unknown therapist. Unknown quality of massage, plus unknown appearance.

Every time I hear a spa manager or owner tell me.. 'just try' 'she is a RMT' 'she very good' , 'she pretty', I roll my eyes. Yep, cough up the dollars and 'try'. Half the revenue of these places must come from people 'trying'. With no 'money back' guarantee.


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[Sun&SandMan]

Yes, these questions are brutal and they dehumanize.

On the other hand guys don't have infinite funds or infinite insurance to go and just try out a $94.50 or a $99.75 one hour massage with an unknown therapist. Unknown quality of massage, plus unknown appearance.

Every time I hear a spa manager or owner tell me.. 'just try' 'she is a RMT' 'she very good' , 'she pretty', I roll my eyes. Yep, cough up the dollars and 'try'. Half the revenue of these places must come from people 'trying'. With no 'money back' guarantee.


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Agreed, and that's what this forum is about. When you find a Gem with skills, share so others can enjoy!

 

[Deleted member 97140]

I always ask , when the ad says new , young , slim girls. 99% of the time, there idea of young and slim is completely different than mine. If we are going to spend our money, and pay the extras that are charge, I think we have the right to ask, and be told the truth. I personal prefer smaller women, and the age comes second. Most women that are advertised as young and hot are usually old and not , and I will just turn around and leave if I was brought there under a lie.

 

[Rubmegood]

The only question I might ask is about non-draping. (the other inference is already there! ) If I haven't seen a review about her on MP I know I'm taking my chances on looks. If she's a fat old granny, I can always turn around and walk out but I feel it's an insult to ask a person how good they look. BTW- I have turned around and walked out because of looks but I never tell them that- I make up some excuse.

 

[bigbill]

I prefer slender women, but truth be told, I can shelve that requirement for a great session. I do like "normal" women as opposed to unusually attractive women, as I find very attractive young providers generally offer a lot less value. They charge a premium for their looks and usually (not always, but usually) offer lackluster service.

It might also be a fetish thing as my GF is unusually attractive - she's in her late 50s and attractive 30yr old men are all over her - maybe I always feel a little "in her shadow" when we're together? Maybe.

 

[FredSanfordII]

I think the other alternatives is far worse. Would they rather have us:

1. book an appointment for 1 - 2 hour,
2. Show up at the door,
3. When the door opens, you evaluate what they look like and if its not to your preference/liking, you leave.
4. Now, you've wasted her/his time, and wasted their opportunity for having a potential client.

Then the repercussions of that is, they'll demand a deposit for no shows or cancelled appointments that occur at the door. And, we all know how many of us will give out etransfer to unknown an independent masseuses without any feedback/history. And, we all know independents don't allow any walk-ins.

I would also like to pose the question, how many people buy fruit or vegetables without looking at it, or opening up the egg carton to see if any eggs aren't broken?

 

[Rubmegood]

maybe I always feel a little "in her shadow" when we're together? Maybe.

Well, bigbill, maybe you're not trying hard enough! What kind of makeup do you wear? Do you wear nice, low-cut tops and tight yoga pants?

 

[Rubmegood]

I think the other alternatives is far worse. Would they rather have us:

1. book an appointment for 1 - 2 hour,
2. Show up at the door,
3. When the door opens, you evaluate what they look like and if its not to your preference/liking, you leave.
4. Now, you've wasted her/his time, and wasted their opportunity for having a potential client.

Then the repercussions of that is, they'll demand a deposit for no shows or cancelled appointments that occur at the door. And, we all know how many of us will give out etransfer to unknown an independent masseuses without any feedback/history. And, we all know independents don't allow any walk-ins.

I would also like to pose the question, how many people buy fruit or vegetables without looking at it, or opening up the egg carton to see if any eggs aren't broken?

Very valid points, Fred!

 

[Massage Me Yeg 02]

I'm going to throw a monkey wrench on this thread lol! If we as paying clients want to be so picky over who we spend our money on by asking in advance (through text which i personally think is rude) based on the girls looks etc.. how would anyone feel if a provider said no thanks to you and walked away? She could say I prefer slim to average hairless guys under 40 and average to well endowed. Lol! Bet you wouldn't be thrilled especially if she refused to touch your privates in any way.
At least be considerate like RMG and come up with an excuse to leave UNLESS you were lied to. That's deceiving. If I'm not crazy about her looks I have gone with just legit massage instead with no extras and found it to be good usually. If not then no repeat.

Majority of the girls in AMPS have already been reviewed many times for looks services offered. All of the indies are also unless someone new pops up.
What one prefers varies.

 

[PingPongPooner]

It's not what she looks like, it's how she makes me feel. A cutie is nice but my eyes are closed most of the time anyway. And if it's FS then as long as she doesn't make you barf, again it's how she makes you feel. Never trade that for looks.

 

[Massage Me Yeg 02]

I agree, the feeling matters. I've had some top notch extras from certain asian ladies over 45 I'm guessing who didnt look so great but their skills were so amazing compared to attractive younger girls who charged more and delivered less.

 

[Albertaman]

The problem is that the way a woman or provider makes us feel is in some ways connected (partly for sure) with her appearance. This has nothing to do with her age. And it's not some idea of a hot looking babe with huge Botox lips or surgically engorged bosoms. Personally I am turned off by all that. I find mature women who have some degree of elegance, refinement more of a turn on. They don't need to have a drop dead gorgeous face. Understated beauty is a major turn on for me. A great smile or a special sparkle in their eyes. Personally for me, a slim and fit body is a big turn on. If they dress well, even better. Age, 40's, 50's, 30's all good. Can't say I get too excited about super young, yawn.


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[Sun&SandMan]

The problem is that the way a woman or provider makes us feel is in some ways connected (partly for sure) with her appearance. This has nothing to do with her age. And it's not some idea of a hot looking babe with huge Botox lips or surgically engorged bosoms. Personally I am turned off by all that. I find mature women who have some degree of elegance, refinement more of a turn on. They don't need to have a drop dead gorgeous face. Understated beauty is a major turn on for me. A great smile or a special sparkle in their eyes. Personally for me, a slim and fit body is a big turn on. If they dress well, even better. Age, 40's, 50's, 30's all good. Can't say I get too excited about super young, yawn.


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Ok, I defiantly agree. I just had a very nice massage from an older very well kept 65+ lady that had a lot of experience. I will be seeing her tomorrow after Carolina if I still have enough energy so she can finish what she started this morning. I for sure ..... no doubt.... had a lot of teasing for advertising repeat business tomorrow.

 

[Sun&SandMan]

Ok, I defiantly agree. I just had a very nice massage from an older very well kept 65+ lady that had a lot of experience. I will be seeing her tomorrow after Carolina if I still have enough energy so she can finish what she started this morning. I for sure ..... no doubt.... had a lot of teasing for advertising repeat business tomorrow.

I am thinking she has not had shaft for a very long time and needs some deep hard bbfs attention ... definitely she was not shy with the grazing under the towel along my hard LG during my massage and she made sure my hand was placed directly on her breast over her unbuttoned white uniform when she was massaging my arm. I could tell she was nervous, wondering if the other girls were coming up with a new client. The massage room is above a restaurant and has a few massage tables, so she may need to coordinate with the other girls to get some "alone time" so we can finish tomorrow. I guess we will need to try and keep the noise down so no one chokes on their lunch in the restaurant. Ha Mexico..... the floor is kind of an open wood plank floor directly above the restaurant tables, hope she is not a squirter. Salad dressing anyone? Just sayin could be messy.....

 

[Albertaman]

I am thinking she has not had shaft for a very long time and needs some deep hard bbfs attention ... definitely she was not shy with the grazing under the towel along my hard LG during my massage and she made sure my hand was placed directly on her breast over her unbuttoned white uniform when she was massaging my arm. I could tell she was nervous, wondering if the other girls were coming up with a new client. The massage room is above a restaurant and has a few massage tables, so she may need to coordinate with the other girls to get some "alone time" so we can finish tomorrow. I guess we will need to try and keep the noise down so no one chokes on their lunch in the restaurant. Ha Mexico..... the floor is kind of an open wood plank floor directly above the restaurant tables, hope she is not a squirter. Salad dressing anyone? Just sayin could be messy.....

A gentleman should always pack in his carry in kit, some 'personal lube' suited for all activities including oral pleasing to ensure that his favourite women of all ages are adequately warmed up.


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[Sun&SandMan]

A gentleman should always pack in his carry in kit, some 'personal lube' suited for all activities including oral pleasing to ensure that his favourite women of all ages are adequately warmed up.


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Ha, always well stocked at home in the Edmonton area.....kinda hard when you only have one small pocket in the swim trunks on the beach.

 

[Albertaman]

Ha, always well stocked at home in the Edmonton area.....kinda hard when you only have one small pocket in the swim trunks on the beach.

That's what waistbelt pouches are for


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[Sun&SandMan]

Ok, so after Caroline's major work this morning, I just couldn't get out of the beach chair until later in the afternoon. I didn't see my new older HE lady as planned after, but hopefully will see her in the morning.....something blue definitely needs looking after in a tight way......I hope.