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[Deleted member 63909]

You all got me wrong brother.
She is not harming me in matter of money.
Its a not a problem for me.

I have ruined my social family business life from the time i meet her.

I really feel ashamed at my home and in front of my staff.
They know i am going through a big trouble in my life but what the problem is they don’t know and they don’t dare to ask me this.

I am in such a depression that my eyes become red while somebody try to talk me about my problem.


My younger brother trying to know why i am running away from family and what is wrong with me that i become such aggressive man in this short period of time.

My friends know about her and me and my friends always use to visit some ob/db every week and spend good time but after i meet her I don’t visit to my friends.

I want to clear all mess which is created by me.

God knows if i will be overcome to this situation anytime soon.

Btw she have done a big favour to me that I have stopped drinking cigarettes and mongering for her

Will now focus on my work for full time away from HER, away from My friends and away from family.

 

[Zorba]

You all got me wrong brother.
She is not harming me in matter of money.
Its a not a problem for me.

I have ruined my social family business life from the time i meet her.

I really feel ashamed at my home and in front of my staff.
They know i am going through a big trouble in my life but what the problem is they don’t know and they don’t dare to ask me this.

I am in such a depression that my eyes become red while somebody try to talk me about my problem.


My younger brother trying to know why i am running away from family and what is wrong with me that i become such aggressive man in this short period of time.

My friends know about her and me and my friends always use to visit some ob/db every week and spend good time but after i meet her I don’t visit to my friends.

I want to clear all mess which is created by me.

God knows if i will be overcome to this situation anytime soon.

Btw she have done a big favour to me that I have stopped drinking cigarettes and mongering for her

Will now focus on my work for full time away from HER, away from My friends and away from family.

Breathe, and take things in slow motion.

Mind is a great story weaver. Trick it into a better and more challenging story.

Find some almost-impossible task for yourself which should take atleast a year to complete. And as a reward: you can meet her only after that task is completed.

Your anger is because you are fighting against it. Stop sulking and looking at it as a problem. Accept and enjoy this pain. Only then you will stop being angry.

Just breathe, and feel the sweet pain n chaos it is creating in your life. N treat it as a game ( I mean the situation n not the girl) which you just have to win over.

Use your situation to your advantage instead of fighting against it.


Own your shit.

Z

 

[Deleted member 63909]

Breathe, and take things in slow motion.

Mind is a great story weaver. Trick it into a better and more challenging story.

Find some almost-impossible task for yourself which should take atleast a year to complete. And as a reward: you can meet her only after that task is completed.

Your anger is because you are fighting against it. Stop sulking and looking at it as a problem. Accept and enjoy this pain. Only then you will stop being angry.

Just breathe, and feel the sweet pain n chaos it is creating in your life. N treat it as a game ( I mean the situation n not the girl) which you just have to win over.

Use your situation to your advantage instead of fighting against it.


Own your shit.

Z

Hmm
I got it what you trying to explain me and maybe this will work for me.

I am in dilemma that should i make her know that i am going away and will not meet her now as she will be waiting for me.

 

[Zorba]

Hmm
I got it what you trying to explain me and maybe this will work for me.

I am in dilemma that should i make her know that i am going away and will not meet her now as she will be waiting for me.

Serendipity is an interesting phenomenon. Let the universe take over. Y plan everything.

Just let go for now. I don’t believe in destiny bullshit but, it’s fun to play destiny game.

Naseeb me hoga to fir milenge.

Keep it interesting by not contacting at all.

 

[Deleted member 63909]

Serendipity is an interesting phenomenon. Let the universe take over. Y plan everything.

Just let go for now. I don’t believe in destiny bullshit but, it’s fun to play destiny game.

Naseeb me hoga to fir milenge.

Keep it interesting by not contacting at all.

Got it.
You have penned your suggestion with some good words and suggested i shouldn’t contact her.

Same suggestions provided by my friends in rude words that she will do something which will make me change my decision and I will not able to go away.

Better i don’t get in touch with her

 

[Uncle Sam]

Devil,

I called I called I called...you twice but no answer.

 

[devilszone06]

Devil,

I called I called I called...you twice but no answer.

On which number u calling me ????

Devil


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[Uncle Sam]

On which number u calling me ????

Devil


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The same number you asked me to stop posting on forum ;-)

 

[Uncle Sam]

Tu aa ja dost. Milte hain. Surely want to meet you and spent some time. There wont be any threat direct or indirect from my side. I just want to speak and understand you.

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Arey meri wife aaj tak mujhe samajh nahi paayi

Idhar phone pe baat nahi ho pa rahi hai, pehle phone pe to mil lo mere yaaron ;-)

 

[V Singh]

Hi Friends...Very excited to be a part of this forum as there was some issues in loading from my other email address...have been a regular reader of the awesome posts written by some lovely chaps including basu da and am glad to see the coordination between the group although it is certainly less than what it was at one time...I am nearly 40 now but have not been to these awesome places called SBs but the enthusiasm led me to Sneha one day ...This is around 10 days back on a Sunday , got into the inner section but just did not sit when the women came all over and came out citing that i am on a look out for someone...continued and went to Mayur and did the same thing after taking a round with women all over the place ...Not sure but would want to check would it be OK to go along with a senior ( if not in age but in experience)...Long time back had been to a SB calked Sheetal in vashi ( near the bus stand and it was for the first and last time ) , had a beer and women surrounded the table ... Was not very comfortable but a huge woman came and sat beside me ...I literally had to wrap up my beer and run for cover or could have been molested by her gigantic frame...Any how after that experience did not go anywhere but since a few days would want to take up a similar experience...would appreciate if seniors ( if not in age but in experience ) would guide towards the relevant SB and preferably a suitable woman for enjoyment in the bar and if possible entry... Thanks in advance

V Singh

 

[V Singh]

Basu da.. what a wonderful fr.. very detailed and informative.. it 10/10 on FR Value...
The best was- "poor woman she did not know that even the mighty Google search engine has failed to locate my dick, so it would be near to impossible for her to find.. she did try for 5-10 minutes and finally asked 'kidhar he?'.. I told her my brother has taken Sanyas and gone for pilgrimage and that I have to sit to pee.. " couldnt resist my laugh.. i was almost rofl.. i am reading FR in office and my colleagues are wondering why i am laughing...
Thanks for writting such a wonderful FR..

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Dude...With due respect to Basu da, i still would pity Basuda if she would have found out where it was... As such he was having trouble walking after the thunder thighs had had the affect on his legs...

Cheers nd respect

V Singh

 

[Rajukool]

Hi,

I am in a big trouble friends right now. I don’t know how to write my situation and should i write it or not.
Please i want some good suggestions to get rid of this situation and please don’t make fun of me.

I am a guy who is regular at db ob from more than 15 years and I don’t fell in trap of this girls.
But now i have find myself in very uncomfortable situation.

I have started to have some feeling for a particular girl in a bar and I am not able to forget her.

Maybe she is not a Angel looking but for me she is beautiful than angel.
Few of my friends ask me to take her to bed so that her charm will fade away but i can assure it is not about lust as i didn’t even touch her inappropriate when i visit her several time from last few months and i know if i will do this the situation will worsen.

She is very cooperative and she doesn’t demand anything and always care for me.

But i want to get out of this situation as she is 24hrs controlling my mind.
My business is facing loss as my decision making is becoming worse day by day.
I am not able to handle my family and staffs well and i always shout on each of them every time.

I always feel to cry and sleep.
I have stopped drinking and smoking and visiting other bar or girls after i meet her.

I am going deep in depression.
None of my friends able to help me out of this situation.

We are starting a new business in other city where my brother willgo and take care of the business.
I thought i should move out from Mumbai and shift there so i can be away from her.
In that case i will visit Mumbai after 4/5 months.
Will these will help?
Should i call her and tell i am moving out?


I want to post this problem as my friends problem,but I don’t have that much of energy to make a story.
My energy level is totally soak.

Just want to get out of this situation without hurting the girl sentiment.

Saheb Raju kulkarni cha namskar . Tumchya problem che ek maatra uttar aahe .Tya bai barobar Lagna kara. Naava purte kara . Khotech kara .Pan kara .Ekda ka Bai chi Bayko zhali ki samda khel khalas. Saha mahinyat teech bai tumhala nakoshi hoil. Sagale aakarshan khatam . Baki garbicha raag manu naka saheb .

 

[Uncle Sam]

Saheb Raju kulkarni cha namskar . Tumchya problem che ek maatra uttar aahe .Tya bai barobar Lagna kara. Naava purte kara . Khotech kara .Pan kara .Ekda ka Bai chi Bayko zhali ki samda khel khalas. Saha mahinyat teech bai tumhala nakoshi hoil. Sagale aakarshan khatam . Baki garbicha raag manu naka saheb .

How much time did it take you to get bored of your wife?
I mean your Doctor wife (just to clear the confusion if there are many)

 

[Rajukool]

How much time did it take you to get bored of your wife?
I mean your Doctor wife (just to clear the confusion if there are many)

Saheb kaay gariba chi maskari karta ? Ugach mazya war ragavu naka saheb. Me kaay chuki keli ka ? Maaf kara saheb .Tumhi aalat ani garibala visarlat. Pudhchya wele la aatvan theva.Devil ,Nm , deshpande ,keshav ani kon to doctor ka vakil bhadwa sam ani tycha mitra to dwarf rajiv saniyal saglyanchi mahiti deto saheb . Me tuchaya kamacha manus aahe saheb .baki tumhi mothi manus. Aamhi saadhe garib .ragavu naka .

 

[Uncle Sam]

Saheb kaay gariba chi maskari karta ? Ugach mazya war ragavu naka saheb. Me kaay chuki keli ka ? Maaf kara saheb .Tumhi aalat ani garibala visarlat. Pudhchya wele la aatvan theva.Devil ,Nm , deshpande ,keshav ani kon to doctor ka vakil bhadwa sam ani tycha mitra to dwarf rajiv saniyal saglyanchi mahiti deto saheb . Me tuchaya kamacha manus aahe saheb .baki tumhi mothi manus. Aamhi saadhe garib .ragavu naka .

Saglyancha mahiti post kar ikde sarvansamaksh?
Kaahi pratibandh aahe ka?

 

[Uncle Sam]

On which number u calling me ????

Devil


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Bhai jaan, its 2292 number. The same number which was spammed. How much time you need?

Lets talk. Don’t be just a virtual man.
Research on my number can be done later.

I will be heading to the swimming pool shortly.

 

[Nav1983]

Would like to add Gambling/ Liquor/girls are to be enjoyed but in limited way.They are part of life don't make them life.Life is more than this three vices..

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Bhai, Aapney toh muzy "kya yahi payr hai" film ki Yaad dilai.. which I saw 14 times due to my love break up that time with a girl whom I was loving more than me and since then still living alone life now with lot of stress

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[Luttaappi]

...
But you won’t lose many women chasing money”

Like the Tamil song goes "if you don't 'play' when you are 20, what's the point you playing when you are 60?"
You have to chase women when you have to chase women.

 

[orient longman]

...
Just planned everything
Will leave Mumbai tomorrow
Bye all
May I find some peace.
MP

I hope you find peace away from Mumbai and are successful in getting your life back on track.
Much respect to you for trying to do the right thing for your family.
Wish you luck @Mongerpleasure .
Take care.

 

[Raj k]

Hmm very nicely written and you have followed my previous post as well.
You are absolutely right she was THAT PARTICULAR GIRL which i have post in my earlier report.

The attraction/trap/illusion/love have increased on each day i have visited her.

I have created some sort of affection for her on my 1st meeting with her and this was easily caught by other bar girl.

The reason I attracted towards her that even she knows in last month that i will be never return to her for some obvious reason which i cannot share here she still waiting for me crying like child.( i know that,its not her word)

Every bar girl know that their root of business is Alcohol which force guys like us to spend on them and even ordinary girl look like heroine in affect of alcohol.
So who will stop his customer to stop drinking?
I think no girl will take this risk.
But she always stops me to drink and sometimes bar staffs get angry on her for this behaviour.

Lastly I have noticed one big thing in my life of mongering.
I give good amount to bar girls or staff
If say some girl deserve 5k i gave her 10k maybe i meet her second time or not.

In my entire life i have notice this very cheap thing that even i give 15k or 20k to a girl who deserves 4 to 5k and she will only get that amount if she would be with other customer but still she wants some more money from me.
They don’t get satisfied in whatever u spend on them.

But her case is different from other
She didn’t asked a penny from me even she spend her full bar time with me.
She didn’t count money which i give her while leaving her from 1st day.
She didn’t give excuses like other girls and demand money that i need money for this or that even she knows that i will give her the amount whatever she will demand.


This all thing have made a place of her in my heart and i have made up her image in my mind that she is some different from other bar girls

Anyway its a long story and i still believes that only way i can forget her is to go away from her.

Just planned everything
Will leave Mumbai tomorrow

Bye all
May I find some peace.
MP

Sleeping with her is not a solution

Its a metal satisfaction that at least me us ko thoka or maja kia