Advice/Tips before session

[Shady69]

So I am going for my 3rd massage session ever tomorrow. I have been to this place before, it was the first ever place I went. Last time I went there I got a nice massage with a HJ HE as well as a nude titsplays and paid around $80. Only problem was I lasted like 30 seconds of the handjob before cumming. Looking back I prob should have told her to edge me for a bit or take it slow. But now I am plan on getting a BJ tomorrow, as well as possible DATY. Only problem is I don’t want to cum fast. Because if I did, post nut hits hard. Therefore I was thinking of what to do. I haven’t came in like 3 or 4 days as I am building it up, but some people have told me to cum before going to the spa, therefore I last longer, my only pushback for that would be is after I cum, I might not feel like going. So maybe I go to the spa and have a quickie in the washroom before going into the room, but then I may not find the lady attractive anymore as she is a bit old. Which may cause problems for me to get hard or even attempt DATY.

For reference, I have never gotten a bj before and I am 20 and a virgin.

 

[Charli3]

Tell the MPA that you want to cum two times and negotiate the price if it seems too much.

not so much to do about cumming twice, hes saying he gets buyers remorse after he nuts so hes asking how to prolong himself.

 

[Charli3]

So I am going for my 3rd massage session ever tomorrow. I have been to this place before, it was the first ever place I went. Last time I went there I got a nice massage with a HJ HE as well as a nude titsplays and paid around $80. Only problem was I lasted like 30 seconds of the handjob before cumming. Looking back I prob should have told her to edge me for a bit or take it slow. But now I am plan on getting a BJ tomorrow, as well as possible DATY. Only problem is I don’t want to cum fast. Because if I did, post nut hits hard. Therefore I was thinking of what to do. I haven’t came in like 3 or 4 days as I am building it up, but some people have told me to cum before going to the spa, therefore I last longer, my only pushback for that would be is after I cum, I might not feel like going. So maybe I go to the spa and have a quickie in the washroom before going into the room, but then I may not find the lady attractive anymore as she is a bit old. Which may cause problems for me to get hard or even attempt DATY.

For reference, I have never gotten a bj before and I am 20 and a virgin.

you should do research on where you're going first and then tell the MPA you want a sensual bj, or ask her to daty first before you get your bj or do 69

 

[Shady69]

tell her you want a sensual bj and not to go fast, or ask her to daty first before you get your bj or do 69

Ok, another thing is how do I ask for DATY. Do I just say “Can I do DATY?” Like would she know what that means or do I have to do something. Another thing is, should I negotiate the extras before the massage starts? And is it an unreasonable thing to ask for her to shower with me, just so I know she’s clean and stuff. Thanks

 

[Charli3]

Ok, another thing is how do I ask for DATY. Do I just say “Can I do DATY?” Like would she know what that means or do I have to do something. Another thing is, should I negotiate the extras before the massage starts? And is it an unreasonable thing to ask for her to shower with me, just so I know she’s clean and stuff. Thanks

prior to the flip she'll probably ask you what you want, usually its either a "no" or "how much you tip" having them shower with you is another thing , depending on the spa you go to not every room has a shower so it just depends on the attendant and the shower situation in the place, again and i can't stress this enough, it depends on what spa you're going to if its a FS spa then the odds are she'll let you daty for a price, if you go to a semi joint, your fun might end at bodyslide or topless HJ with roaming hands. there are plenty of reviews on the site so my only suggestion is read up

 

[Shady69]

prior to the flip she'll probably ask you what you want, usually its either a "no" or "how much you tip" having them shower with you is another thing , depending on the spa you go to not every room has a shower so it just depends on the attendant and the shower situation in the place, again and i can't stress this enough, it depends on what spa you're going to if its a FS spa then the odds are she'll let you daty for a price, if you go to a semi joint, your fun might end at bodyslide or topless HJ with roaming hands. there are plenty of reviews on the site so my only suggestion is read up

I know forsure that she does FS and CBJ and etc because many people have said so.I did not see a shower in the room last time but there is a shower as people have mentioned it. So should I just ask, “can we take a shower together?” When she asked me to flip last time she did ask me what I wanted. But I was thinking of negotiating prices before hand so I don’t get ripped off, like I feel I did last time. She does FS + BJ for $100 tip. How much do you assume she would be willing to do a CBJ for then. Thanks.

 

[Charli3]

I know forsure that she does FS and CBJ and etc because many people have said so.I did not see a shower in the room last time but there is a shower as people have mentioned it. So should I just ask, “can we take a shower together?” When she asked me to flip last time she did ask me what I wanted. But I was thinking of negotiating prices before hand so I don’t get ripped off, like I feel I did last time. She does FS + BJ for $100 tip. How much do you assume she would be willing to do a CBJ for then. Thanks.

she'll probably ask for 80, if you feel like you got ripped off or taken advantage of last time what makes it so compelling to try her again?

 

[Shady69]

she'll probably ask for 80, if you feel like you got ripped off or taken advantage of last time what makes it so compelling to try her again?

Cuz her massage was amazing and she was very energetic and nice. And although she’s old, she’s still good looking.

 

[Charli3]

Cuz her massage was amazing and she was very energetic and nice. And although she’s old, she’s still good looking.

she'll probably want 80 for daty best of luck

 

[Shady69]

she'll probably want 80 for daty best of luck

Thanks bro.

 

[Pay2Play]

For reference, I have never gotten a bj before and I am 20 and a virgin.

You came here for advice!…

 

[Shady69]

You came here for advice!…

Yea lmao. U got any advice bro?

 

[Deleted member 104821]

Just fap before the session.

 

[Old No. 7]

You're asking some pretty specific questions.
If you want very specific answers, tell us what spa it is and who the MPA is.
There are almost certainly guys on here who know the place and even the MPA, so they will be able to tell you exactly what you need to know.

 

[daty869]

Just go with the flow, takes years to figure this hobby out, it’s even more challenging and expensive than golf. Been playing golf since i was 15 and having sex since I was 18. About 40 years at both and still need lessons as every course is different. Constant is the stiffness of the shaft in both. Enjoy and don’t worry, be anxious for nothing.

 

[ignorethisact]

I feel ya bro. There is two sides, you can ask SP or MPA to do certain things to prolong session. You may also just be really sensitive, so maybe some excercues to last longer. Kegal exercises for men, as well as doing edging while masturbating can help.

If you want a more brute force method you could lower your penis head sensitivity with creams or by using like a shower head to get used to intense sensations. The shower head thing worked for me.

 

[fedor77]

Piss down the shower.....j/k!

 

[FullSend]

I feel ya bro. There is two sides, you can ask SP or MPA to do certain things to prolong session. You may also just be really sensitive, so maybe some excercues to last longer. Kegal exercises for men, as well as doing edging while masturbating can help.

If you want a more brute force method you could lower your penis head sensitivity with creams or by using like a shower head to get used to intense sensations. The shower head thing worked for me.

Or you could just masturbate a lot and you'll get less sensitive that way too lol

 

[daty869]

Or you could just masturbate a lot and you'll get less sensitive that way too lol

Long time ago I remember there was a lady named Sue that had a sex talk show on radio and tv. One night a lady called in to see how to get her husband to last longer. One of the suggestions was to train him how to masturbate for at least 15 minutes before ejaculating and to encourage doing this as often as possible in order to see how many days was optimal for them.

 

[hangul99]

I didn't know you guys wrote for the "Dear Abby" column of MP.