Attendant opens up about personal life

[liebert]

Everyone has their days where they’re vulnerable or chose to trust you.

I used to go to the west health spa I believe in brampton with all the Eastern Europeans. I’d typically see Bella but there was this younger girl who had model looks and a tight body. I saw her twice prior but she was frigid with me.

I go in one day and she’s suddenly all over me and after the session opens up about her life as an immigrant and her goals in Canada. Told Bella weeks later and she was surprised herself.

 

[Deleted member 82194]

Do you still have to pay for extras when they begin to trust you?

 

[cali99]

I am just confused by the fact that she would put up these walls and then cross her own boundaries.

And yet at times she seems to want to rebuild the wall.

I know who girl who never did rimming.. after seeing her for some time, surprised me one day… I told her the next time, you don’t have to do that if you don’t want to to. Needless to say, she never stopped.
another well known girl, never did cim until one day. But then she stopped after that one time.
another girl I know never did bbfs, until one day!
so if they change their minds about things, so be it and better for you.
but do know this…. some are on psyche meds! so please be kind and gentle, to our lovely weekend heroes.
happy hunting!

 

[UsefulIdiot]

I enjoyed reading this thread. From the start of my hobbying I seldom repeated with the same MPA for four reasons: I wanted to put up some numbers (in my personal life I always have had serious relationships, no one-offs), I wanted to "try everything at the buffet", I wanted to avoid emotional entanglements and lastly, just like Japanese people, I separate the different parts of my life. But since lately I keep going to the same MP and seeing the same six MPAs it is inevitable that familiarity, trust and friendships develop, so I will benefit from the experiences shared here. But I think I will still just keep all interactions with MPAs within the MPs. Also, perhaps a personal fault of mine, if I feel empathy for someone they become less attractive to me. I am always friendly, civil, respectful, do not cross boundaries, but this part of my life is about sexual indulgence and nothing else. But who knows what will happen in the future, I am just as foolish as everyone else.

 

[TheWhiteShadow]

I enjoyed reading this thread. From the start of my hobbying I seldom repeated with the same MPA for four reasons: I wanted to put up some numbers (in my personal life I always have had serious relationships, no one-offs), I wanted to "try everything at the buffet", I wanted to avoid emotional entanglements and lastly, just like Japanese people, I separate the different parts of my life. But since lately I keep going to the same MP and seeing the same six MPAs it is inevitable that familiarity, trust and friendships develop, so I will benefit from the experiences shared here. But I think I will still just keep all interactions with MPAs within the MPs. Also, perhaps a personal fault of mine, if I feel empathy for someone they become less attractive to me. I am always friendly, civil, respectful, do not cross boundaries, but this part of my life is about sexual indulgence and nothing else. But who knows what will happen in the future, I am just as foolish as everyone else.

percent relate to you.

 

[TheKWguy]

You guys are too emotional. They are in this for money, is there anything about you besides your money that would prompt them to open up things to you?

Jesus, its like a stripper saying they are from your old childhood neighborhood. They are roping you in, working the tips, "wow i've never had a bigger cock then yours!"

 

[Chubbypickle]

Listening to a hookers personal life is the second worst part about this hobby just behind gonorrhea.

 

[cali99]

One thing you all have to remember is about 70 to 75% of these girls are here with no families, no real friends and living in rooming houses or basements and supporting their families back home. They are working at the spas 5 to 6 days a week and all they have is some co worker friends, no relatives, no boyfriends either. Some who have been here long are single mothers with young kids. So there were times they feel lonely and if they found someone they can trust, they tend to open up and talk about their personal lives. Pls be kind to them and help them as much as you can without taking advantage of them. Driving them to here and there on their day off is one I do most of the times and you won't believe how happy they're if you take them to Costco and such. I am dealing with them every day and I know what some of these girls are going through. Trust me, some of their lives are not easy as some of you guys think. Some cried alone after having a rough day at the spa cuz they can't talk that to anyone and don't want anyone else know what kind of jobs they do.

Very true,, the some that have invited me over,
Exactly what you say. And imo, lots of loneliness. And friends are a few and far between. And some are very lonely.. even the
Popular ones!
Classy guy kj…

 

[UsefulIdiot]

You guys are too emotional. They are in this for money, is there anything about you besides your money that would prompt them to open up things to you?

Jesus, its like a stripper saying they are from your old childhood neighborhood. They are roping you in, working the tips, "wow i've never had a bigger cock then yours!"

Oh come on, this sixty year old body with my expanding gut and receding hairline is irresistible to MPAs.

 

[spyderman]

Has anybody developed a repeat customer relationship with an attendant who over time begins to open up more about her personal life after originally claiming she keeps business separate from her real life?

Is it a sign of anything?

Thanks

Gleaner

I connected really well the first time I met one attendant in 2019. Next time I saw her, she was visibly nervous about something and when I dragged it out of her it turns out she wanted my number. Which, of course, I gave to her. I'm still in contact with her today, know all about her situation, and we chat regularly. Overall it means she's comfortable with you, feels confident you could be a friend, and trusts you, just like anyone else would feel in that situation.