Chat Can you trust spa girls...

[xtc27]

Got fairly close to a semi girl recently...she messages me quite a bit and even said the "L" word once. Here's the thing, she's in a long term relationship!

So..."can you trust spa girls?"...what do you think? Some guys are in relationships with these girls (hell, even I was)...just know what you're getting into...eventually, they will fall for another guy.


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I guess … I can trust them more than yer gonna guess … I’ve overtipped a few times & unxxxpectedly got change back … & I xxxpect most girls 2 lie a bit… I don’t find their ESP untrustworthy as girls…

As a spouse tho? Or S.O. ? I think that u can hope 4 = discretion not 2 hurt yer feelings…

 

[OG_funguy]

to be fair, this isn't even about spa girls but anyone. If you're actively chasing a girl and making her feel good, if she's receptive to it (and sometimes they have to be, like being a spa girl or a coworker at any other job), then shit like this is gonna happen.

True, but the difference is spa girls are seeing tons of guys every week….and having fun with them. A lot of these guys are pursuing them…laws of averages say they will eventually meet a few guys they are drawn to.

I hate thinking about this happening with the girl I really like

 

[cl794]

True, but the difference is spa girls are seeing tons of guys every week….and having fun with them. A lot of these guys are pursuing them…laws of averages say they will eventually meet a few guys they are drawn to.

I hate thinking about this happening with the girl I really like

I don't think it's about "how hard" you pursue them though. It's more like she's into you for various reason and therefore sends you these messages. Like the guy she's in LTR with probably treats her fine. She's just not getting all her emotional needs met.

 

[Lalallala]

True, but the difference is spa girls are seeing tons of guys every week….and having fun with them. A lot of these guys are pursuing them…laws of averages say they will eventually meet a few guys they are drawn to.

I hate thinking about this happening with the girl I really like

Let's not forget that you are doing it to a girl that already has a SO. What goes around, comes around

I expect that any attractive woman that interfaces with the public a lot will have guys pursuing them. Ffs. my sister had so many guys ask her out while working the counter/drive through at Tim Hortons. They know her work schedule and make a point of going and talking to her. One of those bastards that flirted with her was wayne gretzky - he was in town for a golf tourny. And she got offered a job at the golf course too. ( Golf Course - Glen Arbour Golf Course )

If you are a good enough guy, and she's worth it, she will do the mental math to decide if giving you up is worth it. I don't get jealous in relationships because I just want to be the better option in all cases

 

[OG_funguy]

Let's not forget that you are doing it to a girl that already has a SO. What goes around, comes around

I expect that any attractive woman that interfaces with the public a lot will have guys pursuing them. Ffs. my sister had so many guys ask her out while working the counter/drive through at Tim Hortons. They know her work schedule and make a point of going and talking to her. One of those bastards that flirted with her was wayne gretzky - he was in town for a golf tourny. And she got offered a job at the golf course too. ( Golf Course - Glen Arbour Golf Course )

If you are a good enough guy, and she's worth it, she will do the mental math to decide if giving you up is worth it. I don't get jealous in relationships because I just want to be the better option in all cases

Wow, the Great One…cool story

 

[Lalallala]

Wow, the Great One…cool story

Just always be the better option is my motto and if she decides that you're not, why would you want to be with her as the backup plan?

 

[OG_funguy]

I don't think it's about "how hard" you pursue them though. It's more like she's into you for various reason and therefore sends you these messages. Like the guy she's in LTR with probably treats her fine. She's just not getting all her emotional needs met.

Unlike other girls I met that are in bad relationships, I think this particular girl actually cares for her BF…like you said, maybe something’s missing in their relationship

 

[Lalallala]

Wow, the Great One…cool story

also it's mind blowing the number of guys hitting on her. And the gifts that she gets. It's absolutely fn crazy. For a Tim Hortons counter/drive through girl!!

 

[Jumpin’ Jack Flash]

True, but the difference is spa girls are seeing tons of guys every week….and having fun with them. A lot of these guys are pursuing them…laws of averages say they will eventually meet a few guys they are drawn to.

I hate thinking about this happening with the girl I really like

Your girl was a lotta fun the other day

 

[Lalallala]

Unlike other girls I met that are in bad relationships, I think this particular girl actually cares for her BF…like you said, maybe something’s missing in their relationship

It's rare for someone to be everything to their partner. If she's straying, then you know one of the problems is, at a minimum, communication.

If they can talk things out, they can manage each other's needs. Clearly this girl does not have that with her bf.

 

[OG_funguy]

I don't think it's about "how hard" you pursue them though. It's more like she's into you for various reason and therefore sends you these messages. Like the guy she's in LTR with probably treats her fine. She's just not getting all her emotional needs met.

Or maybe she's not getting all her physical needs met

 

[Lalallala]

Or maybe she's not getting all her physical needs met

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hahhaha. great stick. Good dick. but that can be managed. The lack of exercise though, yeah. dude's gotta drag his ass to the gym.

 

[Lalallala]

speaking of sex.. for the life of me, i am trying to wrap my head around how sex at a semi can be fun. Like, aside from getting your dick wet.. the fact it all has to be hush hush and not spoken about.. kind of kills it, doesn't it? If you can't make the girl moan or scream, it's much less of a turn on.. unless the turn on is getting it done in the first place...

 

[OG_funguy]

It's rare for someone to be everything to their partner. If she's straying, then you know one of the problems is, at a minimum, communication.

If they can talk things out, they can manage each other's needs. Clearly this girl does not have that with her bf.

There is too much temptation and options for spa girls....not to mention some rich guys that shower them with gifts and money.

At least civie girls in normal jobs are not playing with their customer's dicks all day long

 

[OG_funguy]

speaking of sex.. for the life of me, i am trying to wrap my head around how sex at a semi can be fun. Like, aside from getting your dick wet.. the fact it all has to be hush hush and not spoken about.. kind of kills it, doesn't it? If you can't make the girl moan or scream, it's much less of a turn on.. unless the turn on is getting it done in the first place...

Oh, a few of them are quite loud...I get nervous/embarrassed when that happens...

With holistic girls, it's 100% transactional, at least with semi girls they are choosing who they do stuff with...it's much less transational and more GFE

 

[Lalallala]

There is too much temptation and options for spa girls....not to mention some rich guys that shower them with gifts and money.

At least civie girls in normal jobs are not playing with their customer's dicks all day long

I just presume that seeing so many dicks would make it more of a chore than not... gonna need more than just a dick.. you are going to need a girl that is lacking the attention or something else that makes her open to the advances.

 

[Lalallala]

Oh, a few of them are quite loud...I get nervous/embarrassed when that happens...

Fair point. I guess my experience has them trying to be quiet. it kind of sucks and makes me limp.

With holistic girls, it's 100% transactional, at least with semi girls they are choosing who they do stuff with...it's much less transational and more GFE

Good point. But I'm not gonna let that get in the way of a good fuck.

 

[OG_funguy]

Your girl was a lotta fun the other day

Fuck!

This is exactly why I don't say anything about this girl...I'm keeping her away from guys like you. Plus, I couldn't take hearing any stories about her...better for my mental health if I don't know anything.

 

[OG_funguy]

I just presume that seeing so many dicks would make it more of a chore than not... gonna need more than just a dick.. you are going to need a girl that is lacking the attention or something else that makes her open to the advances.

Yes, for sure it will take more than just a nice dick to get them interested in you

 

[Lalallala]

Yes, for sure it will take more than just a nice dick to get them interested in you

which is why i don't understand the concern about your girl tugging other guys dicks all day. If you are in her mind already in other ways then that's not a big deal. Unless mind blowing orgasms is what she lacks and she thinks this other dude can give her more and better ones