Difficult to manage such people who are not practical. one of my regular table partners also act like same. he didn't allow his girl to dance on my request. from that time i stop going with him. prefer sitting alone. and enjoy the show.
I am exactly the opposite of your regular table partner as my forum frnds know.
I started dancing only to maximize viewership of my fav who was not a good dancer. Ppl used to shower money just by sitting and standing before them for her beauty, grace and smile. When I started dancing, ppl started noticing and began to make her dance more.
When guys make my fav or my regular dance, I take a back seat and njoy the dance and let the girl earn more. I don't spend much on each song and so why should I stop her from earning.
I don't speak or text much with the girls so that they can do their usual isharas and smiles to earn more money.
They just text me that a guest has come and I will just njoy the show and make a few other gals dance.
This helped me have a different kinda friendship with these gals. This they compensate when we meet outside. Even this smoothie understood that and we had a real good fun outside.
Even last Saturday at CP, I made Tania dance ( there are two Tanias there, this was not the thinner Tania) so that one of the patrons (who know me from Natraj) shower cash on her and later make her dance. She thanked me for that. There I danced for the first time with Akansha, the tall sexy smile wala lass there.
Found Preet to be a very very good dancer with perfect emoting in songs though I didn't make her dance. So while going out, asked her and told her next visit will be exclusively for hers for which she said that she will look forward. Though she ain't my type of girl but I liked her emotive dance.
Those gals also know the scenario.
I never expect that a bar gal is mine. Nor do these gals, especially educated ones, expect that from me.
Only recently they have started to show some ownership sentiments. Good that my fav has left the trade for last 4 months though we are in touch.
No money in between. We meet usually at coffee shop and discuss any thing other than bar.
On Saturday, my regular gave me chocolates after the ofc closed at 3:30.
When I asked her as to how she knew I will be coming, she said that those were given by her other guests and teased me by saying "Kaise sochey ki mai tumhare liye laya hu".
We laughed at that and she drove away with me behind.
That night from 2 ( when I arrived) to 3:30, she danced on 14 songs, ( 12 for other guests, one of whom who have those bars) but some of the bars ended with me.
That's the kinda friendship one can make with OB gals with some education and not from family profession of this kind.
Makes it worthwhile to visit OBs.