Dating an Asian Massage Girl

[DellAnnualf]

After each customer? You must go to the expensive places.

 

[billie196777]

What doesn't jive? KMP girls buy a shitload of lubricant and then they wash it all out with Eve after each customer.

Not only does sex become less exciting due to fucking 10 guys a day, they also lose a lot of the natural bacteria and juices that allows their pussies to be naturally wet.

 

[Loveable]

Yeah, it is pretty awesome when you're dating a K girl because they're really good at it. The wetness never really bothered me but it's like a catch 22 with the wetness. If they saw a dozen guys that day then they won't be wet but if they didn't see a lot of guys then they're in a bad mood because business is slow.

 

[SnuffySmith]

Your story is not jiving. I have seen plenty of moist Korean women of all ages. Yes some lube up from usual routine. I don't see the wetness issues you implying. something
is wrong with the customer if the girl needs a 55 gallon drum of astroglide.

 

[big bob]

I'm gonna be honest, I'd love to have a fuckbuddy

And I've dated many of these KMP girls but the reason I would never marry one is that at a certain point they just stop getting wet from douching their pussies so much with Eve

I've been lucky to date a few younger ones or "newbies" who would still get wet, but any of the seasoned ones... Nope.
And one of the newbies eventually started getting dry after coming home from banging 10 guys a day.

I'm at a point in my life I think that I can afford to start having some sugarbabies. I snagged a freebie from a 32 year old room salon girl and banged her one night and I liked the natural wetness. I didn't lick her pussy or anything. Just slid my dick right on in.

Of course that was a one-time thing because she has a rich sugardaddy but it really changed my mind about going to KMPs. Also banged another 40 year old karaoke girl who was also a wet one, regardless of age.

I want to bareback wet Korean girls, not lubed up ones (whether it be spit or KY). Goal is to find someone in their 20's.

 

[Mina]

Not really, I got one to go out during the third visit. Yes the lust thing does apply to all women but you probably wouldn't even consider being friends first with a working girl and go straight for a serious relationship.

I'm trying to give solid advice. Unless you are insane, you will feel deeply hurt the first time you witness first hand how many nasty clients she will see. I might be a horrible person for thinking this, but when I see a successful lawyer type it doesn't hurt as bad. However, it really stings when you see a Ron Jeremy in janitor clothes who was able to come up with the $400 bucks to treat himself.

It's almost like you get a taste of how these girls came to do their job because over time you will also no longer be bothered by the type of clients she sees. This is really the best type of discussion because we're the polar opposite in opinions so people can decide themselves.

 

[sonu singh]

Wanna here something hilarious? My mom calls me she's watching the ticker tape parade in Manhattan today. "Son Guess what?" Ya O moni ? They are having a parade for the NY Giant's today! "ye algaesumnida" O moni. "The newscaster said they are throwing a lot of graffiti out of the windows at the players!."Jin Jja!",graffiti!?

O moni can't hear too well. "O moni they mean confetti, not graffiti."

 

[the man 505]

Finally..... So stupid......good luck!.....omfg

 

[vaeyquoqiorivweva]

Okay, this thread is putting me to sleep. You'd better be well past the "lust" stage by the time you get one of these girls to go out with you.

JingleBerries, your comments could apply to any woman as far as the "lust is gone" goes.

I think I've said just about all I can, here.

 

[spifffffy]

We're not saying we don't believe you or anything. This thread is about seeking advice from those who have dated working girls and I advise against it even though it sounds like common sense.


I’m sure these words will fall on deaf ears because I was there and didn’t even hesitate to jump at the first chance with these girls. My advice is for you to take it very slow and just go from friends with benefit status for a long time because your initial feelings are lust and not real. After the lust is gone, then you will start thinking clearly on whether this is really for you.



It does take time to sink in when you hang out with them and realize that, on a good day, she will be seeing like 16 clients in 20 hours. That is not something you just readily accept, it takes time. I've even had the unfortunate chance to see some of the clients and that is also something that gets stuck in your head. It bothered me at first and I didn't even have to sleep with them.

 

[jif]

I'm gonna tell you guys this: I was married for 20 years. I had many LTRs before that. All with civilians. All Americans. While I don't have anything bad to say about all of those girls and women, not one of them can hold a candle to my wife.

The detractors continue to overstate the obvious. Doesn't it go without saying that getting involved with a prostitute carries many risks? Only a really dumb fuck would equate it with marrying the girl next door or even a girl from the wrong side of the tracks.

These girls are human beings who happen to work in the sex industry. It's a job. Am I the exception that proves the rule? Maybe. But I know a lot of my wife's friends who are married to American guys and they've been married longer than we have. Yeah, they are and/or were working girls.

I have to say that I'm happy that I haven't been hammered or had my balls broken on this thread. When I told my story on USASG, all manner of moron came out of the woodwork to flame me. The level of sophistication on this site is miles above that shit hole. I appreciate it.

Speed, the HUNTER: How about those NEW YORK FOOTBALL GIANTS!!!!!

 

[lolly]

The odds are also stacked against you so much higher than a normal girl. Perhaps a very small percentage of people actually have a successful relationship but that is not the norm. If you're going to roll a dice on a relationship, I wouldn't recommend going against the odds.

 

[snhtbzat]

I think what work for you is very different for others. First of all, you have basically a open-marriage, your wife continue to provide and you continue to hobby if you choose to. Alot of men could not tolerate that even if it is just a HJ.

 

[crazy candy]

Very True

The HUNTER..

 

[Birdeyy :D]

You are a lucky man congratulations on the love success and happiness you and your wife have found for yourselves.

 

[Just a Guy]

There is way too much generalization on this thread. Way too much.

euro5: keep reading.

Jack, you'll have to go into more detail about the "flack" he's getting. Is he handling the paperwork? Has his girl had her biometrics taken? Are they married? Has her visa (if she has one) expired? Doe she have an arrest record?

The first thing we did was get married.

Our INS process went very smoothly. It took two years because my wife had been pinched down south and I had to get her pardoned. I did all that work myself.It was done via some paper work and phone calls. I didn't even have to go down there to go to the pardons hearing. Our attorney handled the rest of the paperwork. I did not want to handle the INS paper work myself. You fuck that up and you have to start all over again.

Once we had our appointment with the adjudicator, the interview took about an hour and my wife's passport was stamped on the spot. No waiting. You've got to be patient. I have the patience of a fucking saint.

If anyone wants more details, PM me. I have no problem talking about this and have answered a lot of questions via PM.

I don't deny you have to have a pretty thick skin to be with an AMP girl but I swear to God, if you get the right one, and I did, you'll be happy as a pig in shit.

I got the right one. Shit, maybe I got the last right one. Married five years in a couple of weeks and yes, I love my wife's family. And they love me.

It can be done and it can be real. I found the needle in the haystack.

 

[fancy_argonaut]

Guys just be aware that these girls feelings become numb do to the volume of men they see without being offered any opportunity to choose their client. In general the older they get their emotions become numb and their sense of love and empathy get twisted. These girls are earners and be prepared to have a serious conversation about their transition into the real world. The young girls that come from Korea pay their bills get shopping money and pay their school tuition. The 30 year old + girls have been working in the industry for many years set in their ways and for whatever reason they never got their green card but have full life's and enjoy their rest days out of the spa shopping playing golf or going to the host bars in flushing ny 32st and Pallisades Park. These Korean milfs are a hard nut to crack because they are very secure inside the spa where they are in total control of men but when the enter the civilian ranks it's a hard transition for them you can easily get overwhelmed with the Korean Drama that these girls are so good at.lastly the economy is lousy and the glory days of big money for the working girls is not what they are accustomed too marriage and green cards have now become a reality for the girls. Never forget these girls are great survivors in any circumstance. Just be pragmatic and you do not need the drama.

 

[X me Out]

If their fingerprints are on file with INS and homeland security your only concern should be if they have an arrest record. If the girls have been arrested and printed they have a snowballs chance in hell to get a green card. Because of the visa waiver with Korea the rules now have a lower threshold of proof and your girlfriend can get her green card as long as her visa waiver is still in effect. The visa waiver that the girls get online from homeland security are sometimes for a longer duration then the visitors visa that is stamped in her passport from customs consult a lawyer to work tour way thru the rules and regulations but more importantly to get a good pre nup. Guys remember when the girls have vou by the balls your heart will slowly follow be pragmatic and don't lose your balls stay in control you are giving the girls a chance and a new opportunity to start their new lives in the states. The green card becomes a badge of honor for these girls as beautiful as these women are today we all grow old so make sure this is not about getting off by a sexy kmp girl. Lastly always remember you are in love with the girl not her family if your girlfriend starts telling you she has to send money to her family in Korea you are screwed if you take on that responsibility. Give her a green card a good per nup and let her get honest work to support her family in Korea. Good luck to all that take the journey you are better men then me.

 

[Charles Williams]

They do. One hour at a time. This applies to everyone who visits an amp. Retired H0_3, what was it like with immigration? My friend is trying to hook up with an amp girl and he's getting a lot of flack from immigration and naturalization. Aside from the sexual perks Im not sure he will make it to the final stages.

 

[Lucian Luna]

That's what everybody thinks until they date a provider.