freewilly416
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I wrote a thread asking the same thing, as I was considering stopping. Obviously, I’m still around
I was not a regular for a year while I dabbled, but then in a span of a month went several times to MP’s. First I felt a bit of a loser, and even went through a bout of guilt.
Then I thought about it a bit more. There should be no shame - sex is sex, whether I pay for it or not. It’s disposable income, and I have far more expensive hobbies. In reality I can get women without paying, but I can’t and won’t deal with another female relationship. My only concern is bringinging something home.
Bottom line, be a man and do what you need to do. Enjoy the hobby but don’t let it fuck up your priorities. Be a man and take care of your responsibilities first, and if you’re fortunate enough to have the time and money to enjoy it - should not be a big deal. Like anything in life, practice moderation and be safe.
I was not a regular for a year while I dabbled, but then in a span of a month went several times to MP’s. First I felt a bit of a loser, and even went through a bout of guilt.
Then I thought about it a bit more. There should be no shame - sex is sex, whether I pay for it or not. It’s disposable income, and I have far more expensive hobbies. In reality I can get women without paying, but I can’t and won’t deal with another female relationship. My only concern is bringinging something home.
Bottom line, be a man and do what you need to do. Enjoy the hobby but don’t let it fuck up your priorities. Be a man and take care of your responsibilities first, and if you’re fortunate enough to have the time and money to enjoy it - should not be a big deal. Like anything in life, practice moderation and be safe.