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[playfulfun]

Have you ever accidentally walked into a room that was occupied?

Did you excuse yourself and leave immediately or
Watch a moment before leaving.

I am asking because this has happened to me while engaged in extras.
The MPA in question stood and watched for a few seconds and then left.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

Have you ever accidentally walked into a room that was occupied?

Did you excuse yourself and leave immediately or
Watch a moment before leaving.

I am asking because this has happened to me while engaged in extras.
The MPA in question stood and watched for a few seconds and then left.

I haven't fully walked in, just opened the door and realized it was the wrong room. No fanfare, just closed the door. It happens. Most times people don't even realize.

 

[playfulfun]

We are all responsible for our own behaviour.

You stated in a previous post that you wouldn't inform your BF/ SO of your past.
Is this because you are ashamed of this part of your life
or
It's nobodies business but yours?

 

[Deleted member 89502]

We are all responsible for our own behaviour.

You stated in a previous post that you wouldn't inform your BF/ SO of your past.
Is this because you are ashamed of this part of your life
or
It's nobodies business but yours?

I stated that I wouldn't inform him of this anymore than i would if I were giving it up for free at bars every weekend - no one is entitled to that information. I'm not sure at what point it became common practice for men to ask women this but it's extremely inappropriate. I have had men ask me this in my dating life and when I refused to answer, some became quite enraged and demanded an answer.

Shame isn't the right word (for me). I'm not proud. I don't see how any mentally stable person could be proud of being a sex worker - in a earlier reply I explained my opinion on how toxic I think it is that "sex work is empowering to women" is a thing. You have to have attachment issues of some sort to be able to let a total stranger that you are very unlikely to be attracted to access your body, never mind the added layer of the acting that most girls partake in, both in and out of the room.

 

[playfulfun]

Thank you for your answers and opinions.
I hope you continue to answer more questions as time goes by.
This thread is the most interesting on this forum and having you representing your industry is refreshing.
You have answered most questions and the ones you didn't answer in most cases should never have been asked.
Most ladies who come on this board are either denying services claimed by the reviewer or trying to drum up business.
You have stated you will not reveal your identity and that is your right.
However as I have stated before I think you are a very interesting individual and would have liked to know more about you.
Have a good night and maybe one day we will meet.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

Thank you for your answers and opinions.
I hope you continue to answer more questions as time goes by.
This thread is the most interesting on this forum and having you representing your industry is refreshing.
You have answered most questions and the ones you didn't answer in most cases should never have been asked.
Most ladies who come on this board are either denying services claimed by the reviewer or trying to drum up business.
You have stated you will not reveal your identity and that is your right.
However as I have stated before I think you are a very interesting individual and would have liked to know more about you.
Have a good night and maybe one day we will meet.

You're welcome.

 

[c1000]

Are you reelin' in the years? Stowin' away the time?
Are you gatherin' up the tears? Have you had enough of mine?

 

[Cola]

From the vague clues that i could ascertain, she works at Premier

 

[Sybarite]

Agreed this thread has been really interesting and educational. All we get around here 99.99% of the time is the male perspective. I think it's very helpful and beneficial for everyone to get the perspective of the women we visit so often, especially for a lot of guys on here who really speak terribly and look down on the women they visit, which is ironic to me since we're the ones seeking the service. Since for obvious reasons these are the super frank conversations that are not practical for you to have with clients in person at the spa it's very nice of you to have them with all of us here. It's nice to be reminded the women we visit are fully rounded humans.

Question: if you ran your own spa what are some of the ways you would make it amazing for both your staff and your clients? This could be existing practices at your own spa or others, and / or your own ideas of how to make the industry better. What are some of the principles and practices you would apply to run a great spa?

Conversely: what are some practices and principles that make for a really terrible spa either for girls to work at or clients to visit?

 

[Deleted member 89502]

Agreed this thread has been really interesting and educational. All we get around here 99.99% of the time is the male perspective. I think it's very helpful and beneficial for everyone to get the perspective of the women we visit so often, especially for a lot of guys on here who really speak terribly and look down on the women they visit, which is ironic to me since we're the ones seeking the service. Since for obvious reasons these are the super frank conversations that are not practical for you to have with clients in person at the spa it's very nice of you to have them with all of us here. It's nice to be reminded the women we visit are fully rounded humans.

Question: if you ran your own spa what are some of the ways you would make it amazing for both your staff and your clients? This could be existing practices at your own spa or others, and / or your own ideas of how to make the industry better. What are some of the principles and practices you would apply to run a great spa?

Conversely: what are some practices and principles that make for a really terrible spa either for girls to work at or clients to visit?

You're welcome.

Off the top of my head...

Positive practices:
- Surveillance cameras in common areas
- ATM on site
- Clear, functioning website with up to date scheduling
- Mandated updated photos every six months for all the girls, all photos could stay active on the website, with most recent photos first, as long as they all resemble current appearance
- Zero tolerance policy for aggressive clients
- Zero tolerance policy for substance use
- Zero tolerance policy for drama/cattiness between the staff - one verbal warning and then you're gone
- Each girl keeps a room and can decorate/set up as desired - fill up each shift to room capacity, minus two rooms for just in case
- Three strike policy for tardiness for girls
- If clients are late for an appt and she has someone after you, we're not changing their start time
- Wifi throughout spa
- Five minute grace period for end of session, then you're getting knocked out
- Girls who aren't ready to work by start of shift don't get to work that day
- Inspection of girls at start of each shift - hair and makeup done, clean and appropriate outfit, hygiene
- 15 minutes between appts, no exceptions
- Spacious and comfortable back room for the girls with a television and kitchenette, with a smaller room with bunk beds for girls to nap in privacy if needed
- In house cleaning staff
- Option for auxiliary input for each room for music
- Small laundry baskets in each room to throw towels in throughout/end of sessions instead of towels ending up all over the place - tidier during sessions but also easier on the cleaners
- No phone policy for girls and clients in common areas
- More than one bathroom for client use
- More than one bathroom for staff use
- Girls showing up for work looking "ratchet" need to enter through the back door (Edit to add - ratchet before getting ready to work, meaning hair in messy bun, no makeup, sweatpants, flip flops, etc)
- Complaints addressed on a case by case basis
- Lawyer on retainer for issues re being recorded without consent in the room, being outed, etc
- 1 catered meal for staff per shift
- Contributions toward school/house/investment after x time of employment with y amount of clients seen per week
- Weekly yoga classes for girls
- Monthly class on investment and financial management
- Panic buttons in each room wired to some sort of pager system that managers are to keep on their person at all times
- Option for crypto payment
- Condos available for girls to rent for personal housing to avoid hassle of rental application process as a sex worker
- Edited to add - separate staff parking around back - and actually, I would make that the staff entrance as well, in general

 

[nervousguy]

How often do you come across guys with pearly penile papules? I'm curious as to how common they are

 

[Deleted member 89502]

How often do you come across guys with pearly penile papules? I'm curious as to how common they are

I have never seen it personally. I have heard about someone who I think may have this.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

I hope your spying clients don't find out that it's not illegal in Canada to video record anyone without their consent as long as there's no audio. Public or private place. Audio is a no no, video is okay.

You cannot record someone in any state of undress without their consent.

Edit: That is creepy that you would try to make something like that public knowledge.

 

[Deleted member 66315]

You cannot record someone in any state of undress without their consent.

Edit: That is creepy that you would try to make something like that public knowledge.

What can I say, I like watching those videos when they show up on porn sites.

 

[OppaiLover]

What can I say, I like watching those videos when they show up on porn sites.

I'm not sure where you're getting your info from but regardless of whether there is audio or not, recording someone without their consent where nudity is involved, falls under Voyersim in our criminal code.

 

[nervousguy]

I have never seen it personally. I have heard about someone who I think may have this.

Wow I'm actually really shocked at that. I've read that the % of guys with PPP is at least in the double digits, so I figured you would've seen plenty by now.

 

[Cool-Story-Bro]

Ever thought about quitting ?
Is it true that MPA makes same as much as a medical doctor ?
(I know it's rude to ask, but it stays ask me anything!)

 

[Asslvr7777]

No, because 90% of women on the planet have no idea what a relationship with a man is supposed to look like. I've rolled my eyes so far back listening to girls talk about their male issues that they've gone back in time and unfortunately left me here.

Yes. I'm not for it - at the same time, we all have a responsibility to not be so naive. Most men who are suckers in this context have self esteem and abandonment issues. Should women take advantage of that? No. But men also need to take responsibility to fix themselves, the same as anyone else. Unpopular opinion but in many scenarios, I do victim blame - it takes two.

Preach!!
This is some next level shit, boys. Write it down! I couldn’t be more serious right now.

You’ve made me Sorry for the “women have no logic” joke. And I’m never sorry for any joke that I’ve ever told. Ya I’m a funny guy.

 

[felixami]

Just another simp, ignore Cosmo for now

Thanks!

 

[BountyGuy]

Thanks again for offering us to ask you questions.
Have you considered doing cam work like strip cam or cam soda or doing only fans,
And quit the massage game?