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[Deleted member 80579]

You're attractive, you presumably have disposable income - why are you here?

I have a disposable income and while I'm not Brad Pitt I can certainly get girls. But at this stage in my life I'd much prefer to go get my needs met at the spa with a beautiful girl. It's not that easy with just some girl you know. You can't just leave right after the physical stuff. Feelings get hurt. And you certainly can't do and say the things you can during a session at a spa. Sure with some girls you can but it's rare. The spa fulfills so many things you can't find elsewhere.

There's attractive, rich pro athletes and celebrities that surely see sex workers and they have no trouble getting girls. It's a great service. Get your needs met and then walk out the door. No stress

 

[Deleted member 89502]

I have a disposable income and while I'm not Brad Pitt I can certainly get girls. But at this stage in my life I'd much prefer to go get my needs met at the spa with a beautiful girl. It's not that easy with just some girl you know. You can't just leave right after the physical stuff. Feelings get hurt. And you certainly can't do and say the things you can during a session at a spa. Sure with some girls you can but it's rare. The spa fulfills so many things you can't find elsewhere.

There's attractive, rich pro athletes and celebrities that surely see sex workers and they have no trouble getting girls. It's a great service. Get your needs met and then walk out the door. No stress

To summarize - you are not interested in putting in the time to yield a relationship, and view spa girls as a resource to fulfill your needs in a way that would not be socially appropriate in any other context. Still confused as to why that would turn us off? Clients that are unattractive are driven to sex workers because they often can't get a woman due to their own laziness. Attractive clients could, but choose not to.

 

[OG_funguy]

...and view spa girls as a resource to fulfill your needs in a way that would not be socially appropriate in any other context.

This is the whole premise of the sex industry, plus it's a two way street. SWs also see their customers as a resource to meet their needs (i.e. financial needs).

As long as everyone understands this, no harm done.

 

[Deleted member 80579]

To summarize - you are not interested in putting in the time to yield a relationship, and view spa girls as a resource to fulfill your needs in a way that would not be socially appropriate in any other context. Still confused as to why that would turn us off? Clients that are unattractive are driven to sex workers because they often can't get a woman due to their own laziness. Attractive clients could, but choose not to.

Trust me, I've had many relationships in my life and put in plenty of time in each and every one of them. But I prefer being a bachelor.
If you don't think that every guy, attractive of unattractive is visiting a spa to fulfill some sort of need, what do you think they are visiting for?

 

[Deleted member 80579]

This is the whole premise of the sex industry, plus it's a two way street. SWs also see their customers as a resource to meet their needs (i.e. financial needs).

As long as everyone understands this, no harm done.

Exactly

 

[Deleted member 89502]

Trust me, I've had many relationships in my life and put in plenty of time in each and every one of them. But I prefer being a bachelor.
If you don't think that every guy, attractive of unattractive is visiting a spa to fulfill some sort of need, what do you think they are visiting for?

I outlined what the specific needs are - I am not in denial of the role each party plays. The question was why attractive men visiting spas would be a turnoff to sex workers - I answered it.

 

[Big red]

Do you have the same routine for new customers and does service get better the more visits he has also you never say about sf2 or other things you like.

 

[OG_funguy]

I outlined what the specific needs are - I am not in denial of the role each party plays. The question was why attractive men visiting spas would be a turnoff to sex workers - I answered it.

No one can tell you how you should feel but I thought earlier you said all else being equal, that of course you would have more fun with an attractive guy.

Btw, just because someone is attractive doesn't necessarily mean they don't have some of the same issues and insecurities as unattractive men. I wouldn't assume that just because someone is attractive, they should be able to have a healthy relationship.

 

[Deleted member 80579]

I outlined what the specific needs are - I am not in denial of the role each party plays. The question was why attractive men visiting spas would be a turnoff to sex workers - I answered it.

You're certainly entitled to think and feel how you do. I just don't agree with your logic. But no biggie

 

[Deleted member 89502]

Do you have the same routine for new customers and does service get better the more visits he has also you never say about sf2 or other things you like.

This has been addressed in previous replies.

I don't know what sf2 is.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

No one can tell you how you should feel but I thought earlier you said all else being equal, that of course you would have more fun with an attractive guy.

Btw, just because someone is attractive doesn't necessarily mean they don't have some of the same issues and insecurities as unattractive men. I wouldn't assume that just because someone is attractive, they should be able to have a healthy relationship.

I would. Note that I said some sex workers, not all, are turned off by attractive clients.

I never indicated that they don't have the same issues - the majority do. But to deny that their chances are better would be delusional.

 

[c1000]

How ethical are the owners?

What are some of the shady things they have done?

 

[Sprockets]

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You're attractive, you presumably have disposable income - why are you here?

In the words of Charlie Sheen, "I don't pay them to come, I pay them to leave".

 

[Deleted member 89502]

How ethical are the owners?

What are some of the shady things they have done?

I have never met the owner of my spa. I don't know of anything shady they have done.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

Are

In the words of Charlie Sheen, "I don't pay them to come, I pay them to leave".

A shining example after which to model your behavior, to be sure.

 

[OG_funguy]

I would. Note that I said some sex workers, not all, are turned off by attractive clients.

I never indicated that they don't have the same issues - the majority do. But to deny that their chances are better would be delusional.

To each their own. I doubt there are many Brad Pitts amongst us anyways

 

[Happyman]

Each MPA has her way/weapons to please a client. It could be some of the following:
Kisses
Friendliness
Chatting like a close friend who understand well
Dirty talk
Teasing skill
Liberal/ wild
Toned body

So, what are your strategy or methods to please a client?

 

[c1000]

I have never met the owner of my spa. I don't know of anything shady they have done.

Yeah, usually top criminals conceal their identity anyway. $100 they don't even live here.

Let me guess all female managers?
You open to dating women?
What's your favourite candy/treat?

 

[Old No. 7]

I don't know what sf2 is.

SF2 is Shower for 2.
Showering together.

 

[Dongo]

To summarize - you are not interested in putting in the time to yield a relationship, and view spa girls as a resource to fulfill your needs in a way that would not be socially appropriate in any other context. Still confused as to why that would turn us off? Clients that are unattractive are driven to sex workers because they often can't get a woman due to their own laziness. Attractive clients could, but choose not to.

Correct it is a choice, as it is your choice to do spa work. Being attractive is not a choice, agreed better than being ugly, and if a good looking guy decides to satisfy primal urges with sex worker he has his own reasons; perhaps convenience, not wanting a relationship, career priorities, whatever.
Sex work is said to be an ancient profession, just because it has evolved as a business as many other facets of life, doesn't mean that those that choose to partake are any more flawed than those that choose other sex life avenues.
That's my story and I'm sticking to it.