Need advice

[Johnny O]

So here is an update after I last posted more than a month ago and for those of you that commented about my situation I can report that things are going great and she has adjusted to a normal life. I have learned alot about this hobby thru some of her voluntary stories and experiences and most of these woman do what they do for the money to give their children better lives etc. After hearing many of your views and all were appreciated, I can conclude that it is possible to for an MPA to leave the business for someone she really likes . Although my circumstances were different where I did not know she was a MPA it can happen if the relationship is true and she understands that her career will need to end. I ended our relationship and she came running to me in a couple of days and choose to have a serious relationship and exit the biz. She is doing more than fine and happy she does not have a double life anymore. Age probably played a factor since she is in her forties. She also mentioned many MPAs going thru this more and more where they have to choose leaving the biz for good guy and it's not all about the money it's about Mr. Right for most of these woman . Hopefully this thread will give some of you some hope if you are in a similar situation.

 

[Roman]

Thanks for the update Johnny.
I didn't know she was older and could see the end of her spa life anyway.
I think it depends on the lifestyle of the woman and has kids to support.
A lot of these girls at this for awhile get used to the big money and cannot break away from it.
Good luck in the future.

 

[Voland]

So here is an update after I last posted more than a month ago and for those of you that commented about my situation I can report that things are going great and she has adjusted to a normal life. I have learned alot about this hobby thru some of her voluntary stories and experiences and most of these woman do what they do for the money to give their children better lives etc. After hearing many of your views and all were appreciated, I can conclude that it is possible to for an MPA to leave the business for someone she really likes . Although my circumstances were different where I did not know she was a MPA it can happen if the relationship is true and she understands that her career will need to end. I ended our relationship and she came running to me in a couple of days and choose to have a serious relationship and exit the biz. She is doing more than fine and happy she does not have a double life anymore. Age probably played a factor since she is in her forties. She also mentioned many MPAs going thru this more and more where they have to choose leaving the biz for good guy and it's not all about the money it's about Mr. Right for most of these woman . Hopefully this thread will give some of you some hope if you are in a similar situation.

It’s easy to say some positive words, to encourage you... hmm, unfortunately, you still have a long way to go.

Some small things, and you can take them as advice if you want.

If you BOTH really want to succeed, don’t tell anyone. Shhh! Keeping quiet may help you achieve your goals.

Help her to minimize the connections with the old biz friends from MPA world, at least for some period of time.

And Good Luck!

 

[snoopdoggie]

No. She made it clear what she does and wanted to tell the truth and not hide anything because things were getting serious .
We never met at a passage place as I never ended up going to one just enquired on here in the past.
Having a hard time with this just wanted some feedback.

Did she tell you if she does extras or not? Maybe she only does massage. If you want to find out if she does extras, ask a friend that you trust to go get a massage from her, and he can find out for you. Obviously she can't know that he's your friend. Lol.

 

[c1000]

 

[henricas]

From Experience: Once they enter the massage world their mind goes array.

I met a girl who came to Canada on a 2 year contract. Her intention was to go back to China after the 2 years and stay there with her family. She ended up moving her family to Canada because of the easy money. Could not make a go of her life back In China.

Met another girl who was a student. To cover expenses she SP from her apartment.
After graduating she continued to SP for a few years more, as her Income from SP was higher than her career Income.
Even now after her career income caught up with SP income, still does it because as she said to me "Misses the Thrill"

The difference would be; Did she just gave HE or was it FS?, FS SPs have no feelings. They have to be detached in order to service 8 to 16 guys a day.

 

[cupcrazy]

How many job can yield $100 in half an hour of work? Not much.

Like a pron star once said, think twice before entering the adult industry. Once you are in it, you will be in that world forever even after you quit.

 

[krayjee]

So here is an update after I last posted more than a month ago and for those of you that commented about my situation I can report that things are going great and she has adjusted to a normal life. I have learned alot about this hobby thru some of her voluntary stories and experiences and most of these woman do what they do for the money to give their children better lives etc. After hearing many of your views and all were appreciated, I can conclude that it is possible to for an MPA to leave the business for someone she really likes . Although my circumstances were different where I did not know she was a MPA it can happen if the relationship is true and she understands that her career will need to end. I ended our relationship and she came running to me in a couple of days and choose to have a serious relationship and exit the biz. She is doing more than fine and happy she does not have a double life anymore. Age probably played a factor since she is in her forties. She also mentioned many MPAs going thru this more and more where they have to choose leaving the biz for good guy and it's not all about the money it's about Mr. Right for most of these woman . Hopefully this thread will give some of you some hope if you are in a similar situation.

Nice to hear you have a real happy ending. Pls make sure she deleted all her regulars' contact numbers in her phone, change to a new number and cut off all her spa friends, otherwise you are looking for problems down the road.

 

[felixami]

Johnny O
when i read this
i wanted to say
O Johnny

r u in love?

since she has stopped
does that mean
u can never see
an mpa?

do u ever role play?
u pretend to be a john
and ask her for a HE?

 

[Johnny O]

Johnny O
when i read this
i wanted to say
O Johnny

r u in love?

since she has stopped
does that mean
u can never see
an mpa?

do u ever role play?
u pretend to be a john
and ask her for a HE?

Felix, at the offset I didn't know she was an MPA and yes I was a casual hobby guy . She left the biz on her own, as she knew that she was losing me and I stopped also .. After some turbulence things were pretty normal until 2.5 months ago, when I found out she had a couple of friends that were her premium clients and I connected the dots and found out she was providing some services to the 2 at their place and at hotel. It was crushing thinking that we turned that corner but money always talks in life I guess. She has been after me to get back together but the trust has been broken, and I am not ever going down that road again. It takes a toll on your life, health, wallet etc. Enjoy the fantasy at the spa and then go happy with no drama, and stress its not worth it in the end.

 

[krayjee]

Felix, at the offset I didn't know she was an MPA and yes I was a casual hobby guy . She left the biz on her own, as she knew that she was losing me and I stopped also .. After some turbulence things were pretty normal until 2.5 months ago, when I found out she had a couple of friends that were her premium clients and I connected the dots and found out she was providing some services to the 2 at their place and at hotel. It was crushing thinking that we turned that corner but money always talks in life I guess. She has been after me to get back together but the trust has been broken, and I am not ever going down that road again. It takes a toll on your life, health, wallet etc. Enjoy the fantasy at the spa and then go happy with no drama, and stress its not worth it in the end.

Let me repeat it again. This industry is like a trap to them. Once you are in , you will never be able to get out.cuz money is so easy for them and a little extra fun and thrill they can easily get when ever need be.

 

[Johnny O]

You are 1 million percent correct Krayjee.
So much money and so many players ..

 

[Hangdai]

I watched Casino again, such a classic movie.
Every character In that movie has its equivalent on this board, and the story line is comparable to what every guy on here has experienced, although with much less Hollywood embellishment.

My fav is the James Woods character (Lester Diamond, professional pimp and con artist), he could give lectures on how to handle women.

 

[hangul99]

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I watched Casino again, such a classic movie.
Every character In that movie has its equivalent on this board, and the story line is comparable to what every guy on here has experienced, although with much less Hollywood embellishment.

My fav is the James Woods character (Lester Diamond, professional pimp and con artist), he could give lectures on how to handle women.

And as De Niro's character found out once a Ho always a Ho.