Question When do you cut ties with a regular?

[Chubbypickle]

So she’s indecisive, distant, moody, and doesn’t want to perform sexual acts… sounds like a marriage to me.

Move on and go find something younger and hotter to bang but treat it like your getting an oil change. Walk in, drop some fluids and go.

 

[johnbuyba]

the biggest mistake you made is falling in love with a prostitute. looks like she may cut ties with you. i've cut off a regular before for texting me happy valentines day while i was with my girlfriend, almost got me killed

 

[bbb6]

personally, i don't think 7 times in a month is that bad if the service is still good. sounds like she was just having a bad day though, anyone would feel kinda shitty working a day they don't have to. but i'll say that having a working girl's contact doesn't really mean shit, i don't really care to ask for it but i don't think i've ever been denied. she probably gets asked out by tons of guys. it's part of their job to make you feel special, remember that.

my take from reading what you wrote is to stop overthinking it, she most likely sees you as a good customer at most. she ghosts you on her off days, avoids personal questions, and doesn't want to go out with you. if there's something more, she'll let you know but it doesn't seem like there is.

if you're going back because you like the service or whatever, sure. don't get any feelings caught up in it though.

 

[djasper]

Yeah, you guys are right, I should have seen it from her perspective... I mean, if I was an MPA and some dude visits me that many times in a month, I would be hesitant. I'll probably see her mid-August.

my take from reading what you wrote is to stop overthinking it, she most likely sees you as a good customer at most. she ghosts you on her off days, avoids personal questions, and doesn't want to go out with you. if there's something more, she'll let you know but it doesn't seem like there is.

This is what I'm mostly leaning towards, but who knows!

 

[PussPekr]

Hi Everyone,

I’m new to the MP scene and was hoping some of you veterans could shed some light on my current situation. I’ve been seeing a particular MPA regularly – about seven times so far within a month – and in my recent visit, I noticed a change in her behaviour.

She usually greets me with a smile and a long hug, but this did not happen in my recent visit. When we got to the room, she said she could only do 30 minutes even though I booked an hour appointment with the owner. This was odd since we went about 5-8 minutes overtime, but I didn’t see any other customers show up. Additionally, she’s ok with me licking and sucking on her tits, but for some reason, she had her hands covering up her boobs and would not let me explore them. As well, she’s normally open to conversation, but she would not engage in much discussion / give one word answers or say “I don’t know” quite a bit – I know from previous visits that this is her way of not answering particular questions, but she was saying this more than usual.

So, of course, a lot of thoughts and scenarios went through my mind on my drive home. She was working on a day that she normally doesn’t, and when I noticed her cold behaviour early, I actually asked her about it and she said she didn’t want to be working that day. Hence, this is probably the most likely explanation. Or maybe she saw a customer earlier in the day that put her in a bad mood (maybe he was rough with her tits, and thus, she didn’t want me to play with them?... I’m kind of reaching here, lol).

But then I also thought about if there were any changes from my second last visit to my recent visit – we exchanged numbers and added each other on chat app. In that time frame, I just sent her some casual texts asking how her day’s going and if she’s working on an unscheduled day – she reads the messages but doesn’t’ respond. Obviously, we have somewhat a connection based on the number of times I’ve seen her, but she sends mixed signals (e.g. I asked her if she wanted to get dinner (as I was the last client for the day a few weeks ago) and she didn’t answer. In another visit, we were in the heat of the moment, staring at each other, and I said “I wish I could do this every night with you” and she said “take me home” (not as a joke… I think? Lol … or was it “invite me home”… you get the point). Anyways, I should cut the details here, who knows if she browses this forum!

So yeah, I’m not sure what to make of this, but it’s been on my mind enough that I’m making a post about it. I know some of you have been in this game for decades, so maybe you’ve experienced something similar with your regular(s) in the past/current… Any thoughts or advice on my situation? Am I just over-reacting and it was probably just a one-off as she was working a non-scheduled day? I suppose I’ll find out in my next visit, but this won’t happen for a few weeks due to personal stuff. Where do you draw the line in terms of personal connection and conversation with a regular?

If you have any personal stories with a regular and how it turned out, do share! Thanks for reading my essay

"Life Motto : Only thing better than pussy, is new pussy..only thing better than new pussy is Two pussies!!
Words 2 live by......" This is your get out of jail free card....... and for what ails you.
[Got this quote from Twitter]

Seriously the wisdom on this board is incredible. Most of us have been there. LOL

I have had several regulars ...some for up to 3 years (current on). I am in the process of moving on and I suspect she is as well.
How can I tell? I used to be rock hard and throbbing for her touch.....now much less.
On her part .....the service is less or not as exciting. We do less texting or talking on phone.
I am now regaining my mojo from seeing other Mpas that were on my To Do List.
Most important is the realization I am likely to be one of a few / or many regulars

Pick the advice (or combination) that make sense to you.

Good luck.

 

[kittyhound69]

If she really liked you. You would have received extras for free. She would have asked you to come at the end of her shift for a session, asked you to drive her home. etc …. Don’t over think it. See her , don’t see her,? as they all said , find a new pussy. Nothing better …
And don’t get involved.

 

[uncle willy]

I'm still trying to figure out how you afford 7X in 4.5 weeks. That's gas money these days. LOL!

 

[krayjee]

If a girl really likes you. she will put effort to respond to your texts. If she didn't , the answer is very clear, you are just a nobody to her and she doesn't care. Don't waste your money and time seeing her again. Move on to the next , otherwise you'll just drain your money and energy and will get emotional damage. They have no feelings, they can replace you with another guy in no time.
The best thing is , always have 2-3 regulars in hand, something like a shoulder to cry on..

 

[aa84aa]

I’ve seen some regulars for years. One I’ve seen for 8+ years.

I know it’s time to move on when chemistry, communication and openness decline. A red flag is an ask for help beyond. What’s beyond? It puts you in jeopardy or serious responsibility, in the categories of immigration, down payments, and surgeries.

I think most of us who have seen regulars for years, definitely a friendship or with benefits occurs. You see them outside of the spa, maybe a meal and more. But I’ve found that it eventually boils down to $$$ and that the business does something both to the MPA and us.

 

[cupcrazy]

the biggest mistake you made is falling in love with a prostitute. looks like she may cut ties with you. i've cut off a regular before for texting me happy valentines day while i was with my girlfriend, almost got me killed

did you tell her that you have a gf?

 

[Apolyton]

I have experienced this behavior often myself. You won't find a logical or truthful reason. Simply move on and find pleasure elsewhere. It is usually fun while it lasts.

 

[djasper]

Solid advice guys, I may just move on without confirmation, but we'll see.

I'm still trying to figure out how you afford 7X in 4.5 weeks. That's gas money these days. LOL!

From gambling, lol. My gambling/SPs/MPAs are grouped together in one fund... if my gambling goes well, I get more fun

 

[aa84aa]

I have experienced this behavior often myself. You won't find a logical or truthful reason. Simply move on and find pleasure elsewhere. It is usually fun while it lasts.

Agreed. The other reality is there is always another gem at the next spa. Our fair city and GTA is blessed with a high number of spas and talent that rivals any other. Thank you multiculturalism and people migrations as the nations come to us.

When the fun remains you enjoy. Then move to new fun. That’s why retiring and leaving it completely is so hard. You can drive 10-30 min from anywhere in the city and enjoy the intimate company of an attractive woman who provides the illusion of focusing on you.

 

[sexpuppy]

If someone likes you they will make time for you; in this case she doesn't for whatever reason. If she wanted a relationship she would pursue it, simple as that. If you want to know her reasons; ask her.

 

[cali99]

Hi Everyone,

I’m new to the MP scene and was hoping some of you veterans could shed some light on my current situation. I’ve been seeing a particular MPA regularly – about seven times so far within a month – and in my recent visit, I noticed a change in her behaviour.

She usually greets me with a smile and a long hug, but this did not happen in my recent visit. When we got to the room, she said she could only do 30 minutes even though I booked an hour appointment with the owner. This was odd since we went about 5-8 minutes overtime, but I didn’t see any other customers show up. Additionally, she’s ok with me licking and sucking on her tits, but for some reason, she had her hands covering up her boobs and would not let me explore them. As well, she’s normally open to conversation, but she would not engage in much discussion / give one word answers or say “I don’t know” quite a bit – I know from previous visits that this is her way of not answering particular questions, but she was saying this more than usual.

So, of course, a lot of thoughts and scenarios went through my mind on my drive home. She was working on a day that she normally doesn’t, and when I noticed her cold behaviour early, I actually asked her about it and she said she didn’t want to be working that day. Hence, this is probably the most likely explanation. Or maybe she saw a customer earlier in the day that put her in a bad mood (maybe he was rough with her tits, and thus, she didn’t want me to play with them?... I’m kind of reaching here, lol).

But then I also thought about if there were any changes from my second last visit to my recent visit – we exchanged numbers and added each other on chat app. In that time frame, I just sent her some casual texts asking how her day’s going and if she’s working on an unscheduled day – she reads the messages but doesn’t’ respond. Obviously, we have somewhat a connection based on the number of times I’ve seen her, but she sends mixed signals (e.g. I asked her if she wanted to get dinner (as I was the last client for the day a few weeks ago) and she didn’t answer. In another visit, we were in the heat of the moment, staring at each other, and I said “I wish I could do this every night with you” and she said “take me home” (not as a joke… I think? Lol … or was it “invite me home”… you get the point). Anyways, I should cut the details here, who knows if she browses this forum!

So yeah, I’m not sure what to make of this, but it’s been on my mind enough that I’m making a post about it. I know some of you have been in this game for decades, so maybe you’ve experienced something similar with your regular(s) in the past/current… Any thoughts or advice on my situation? Am I just over-reacting and it was probably just a one-off as she was working a non-scheduled day? I suppose I’ll find out in my next visit, but this won’t happen for a few weeks due to personal stuff. Where do you draw the line in terms of personal connection and conversation with a regular?

If you have any personal stories with a regular and how it turned out, do share! Thanks for reading my essay

hope You find that fwb MPA!
cheers

 

[johnbuyba]

did you tell her that you have a gf?

nope i never share any personal information about myself with an sp

 

[ErikLehn]

Was chatting with a mpa at Pure. She gave an interesting stat estimate that roughly 60-70% of her clients are married dudes

 

[Sir Spank]

Hi Everyone,

I’m new to the MP scene and was hoping some of you veterans could shed some light on my current situation. I’ve been seeing a particular MPA regularly – about seven times so far within a month – and in my recent visit, I noticed a change in her behaviour.

She usually greets me with a smile and a long hug, but this did not happen in my recent visit. When we got to the room, she said she could only do 30 minutes even though I booked an hour appointment with the owner. This was odd since we went about 5-8 minutes overtime, but I didn’t see any other customers show up. Additionally, she’s ok with me licking and sucking on her tits, but for some reason, she had her hands covering up her boobs and would not let me explore them. As well, she’s normally open to conversation, but she would not engage in much discussion / give one word answers or say “I don’t know” quite a bit – I know from previous visits that this is her way of not answering particular questions, but she was saying this more than usual.

So, of course, a lot of thoughts and scenarios went through my mind on my drive home. She was working on a day that she normally doesn’t, and when I noticed her cold behaviour early, I actually asked her about it and she said she didn’t want to be working that day. Hence, this is probably the most likely explanation. Or maybe she saw a customer earlier in the day that put her in a bad mood (maybe he was rough with her tits, and thus, she didn’t want me to play with them?... I’m kind of reaching here, lol).

But then I also thought about if there were any changes from my second last visit to my recent visit – we exchanged numbers and added each other on chat app. In that time frame, I just sent her some casual texts asking how her day’s going and if she’s working on an unscheduled day – she reads the messages but doesn’t’ respond. Obviously, we have somewhat a connection based on the number of times I’ve seen her, but she sends mixed signals (e.g. I asked her if she wanted to get dinner (as I was the last client for the day a few weeks ago) and she didn’t answer. In another visit, we were in the heat of the moment, staring at each other, and I said “I wish I could do this every night with you” and she said “take me home” (not as a joke… I think? Lol … or was it “invite me home”… you get the point). Anyways, I should cut the details here, who knows if she browses this forum!

So yeah, I’m not sure what to make of this, but it’s been on my mind enough that I’m making a post about it. I know some of you have been in this game for decades, so maybe you’ve experienced something similar with your regular(s) in the past/current… Any thoughts or advice on my situation? Am I just over-reacting and it was probably just a one-off as she was working a non-scheduled day? I suppose I’ll find out in my next visit, but this won’t happen for a few weeks due to personal stuff. Where do you draw the line in terms of personal connection and conversation with a regular?

If you have any personal stories with a regular and how it turned out, do share! Thanks for reading my essay

Like others said you need to have 2-3 at least and normally looking for a fourth. This is a vicious buisness. Most ladies want guys money and most guys want relief. That’s where the connection ends in 95% of cases. Always best to keep this in mind.

 

[cali99]

Hi Everyone,

I’m new to the MP scene and was hoping some of you veterans could shed some light on my current situation. I’ve been seeing a particular MPA regularly – about seven times so far within a month – and in my recent visit, I noticed a change in her behaviour.

She usually greets me with a smile and a long hug, but this did not happen in my recent visit. When we got to the room, she said she could only do 30 minutes even though I booked an hour appointment with the owner. This was odd since we went about 5-8 minutes overtime, but I didn’t see any other customers show up. Additionally, she’s ok with me licking and sucking on her tits, but for some reason, she had her hands covering up her boobs and would not let me explore them. As well, she’s normally open to conversation, but she would not engage in much discussion / give one word answers or say “I don’t know” quite a bit – I know from previous visits that this is her way of not answering particular questions, but she was saying this more than usual.

So, of course, a lot of thoughts and scenarios went through my mind on my drive home. She was working on a day that she normally doesn’t, and when I noticed her cold behaviour early, I actually asked her about it and she said she didn’t want to be working that day. Hence, this is probably the most likely explanation. Or maybe she saw a customer earlier in the day that put her in a bad mood (maybe he was rough with her tits, and thus, she didn’t want me to play with them?... I’m kind of reaching here, lol).

But then I also thought about if there were any changes from my second last visit to my recent visit – we exchanged numbers and added each other on chat app. In that time frame, I just sent her some casual texts asking how her day’s going and if she’s working on an unscheduled day – she reads the messages but doesn’t’ respond. Obviously, we have somewhat a connection based on the number of times I’ve seen her, but she sends mixed signals (e.g. I asked her if she wanted to get dinner (as I was the last client for the day a few weeks ago) and she didn’t answer. In another visit, we were in the heat of the moment, staring at each other, and I said “I wish I could do this every night with you” and she said “take me home” (not as a joke… I think? Lol … or was it “invite me home”… you get the point). Anyways, I should cut the details here, who knows if she browses this forum!

So yeah, I’m not sure what to make of this, but it’s been on my mind enough that I’m making a post about it. I know some of you have been in this game for decades, so maybe you’ve experienced something similar with your regular(s) in the past/current… Any thoughts or advice on my situation? Am I just over-reacting and it was probably just a one-off as she was working a non-scheduled day? I suppose I’ll find out in my next visit, but this won’t happen for a few weeks due to personal stuff. Where do you draw the line in terms of personal connection and conversation with a regular?

If you have any personal stories with a regular and how it turned out, do share! Thanks for reading my essay

If she tries to smash your car using her car into your garage. You cut ties!
otherwise, live and let live!

 

[snoopdoggie]

I mentioned this before, but some women have really wild mood swings. There was a young lady working in mostly the Durham Region area a few years ago. The first time I saw her, she was a lot of fun. She was very happy and talkative. We also had a lot in common, as she said she liked watching hockey a lot. Then, the second time I saw her, she was a completely different person. It looked like she was really mad about something, never smiled, and never said a word about anything. I don't know what happened to her because I never seen her ads anymore, and nobody talks about her anymore.