Chat Can you trust spa girls...

[Magikarp]

I’ve only talked to a couple of MPAs about this. One rents a basement apartment for $1800/month for her and her kids, and hires out people to look after her kids while she works. She makes plenty but she knows well enough that as she ages her income potential just drops and is saving as much as she can. Another sends back money to her mom who’s taking care of her kids - and does whatever she can to earn as much as she can now. The latter knows what she is doing is bad for her health but she hopes the sacrifice is worth it for her family.

Sounds like a shitty situation all around for both of them.

 

[Labussala]

Yes, you will continue to visit…no choice!

Yes, I judge you! Are you informed - unlikely!

 

[ViagaraFalls]

I’ve only talked to a couple of MPAs about this. One rents a basement apartment for $1800/month for her and her kids, and hires out people to look after her kids while she works. She makes plenty but she knows well enough that as she ages her income potential just drops and is saving as much as she can. Another sends back money to her mom who’s taking care of her kids - and does whatever she can to earn as much as she can now. The latter knows what she is doing is bad for her health but she hopes the sacrifice is worth it for her family.

Sounds like a shitty situation all around for both of them.

Some mpas do remarkably short-sighted things with their sudden wealth. They go for repeated expensive holidays, waste money on expensive cars & accessories, blow it at casinos. They do not tell their clients this. Oh no. The clients hear stories like your sharing.

 

[Surgeon1936]

Hahahaha! believing that will bring a world of hurt on yerself!
>>>>~~~~~~~~~~~~> "take them out of this business" not likely.
Once an option - ALWAYS AN OPTION
ALSO ~~~> in the RARE event you do take the girl out of the business,
you CANNOT TAKE THE BUSINESS OUT OF THE GIRL
It's a gam spene not suited to the weak of heart or if

Some mpas do remarkably short-sighted things with their sudden wealth. They go for repeated expensive holidays, waste money on expensive cars & accessories, blow it at casinos. They do not tell their clients this. Oh no. The clients hear stories like your sharing.

My fav really appreciate value of money.Never spend on unnecessary things.Drives good but old car.Mostly saving to buy house

 

[Social-Misfit]

I don't know how any of you can get close to any of these women, I swear y'all need yer heads examined.
They lie, lie, lie and for good reason, they think we're all lowlifes ravaging their bodies, at the end of the day, no exceptions.

I mean put yourself in their shoes, 20% of the men they see are maybe someone they might be attracted to on a good day, a good day. The rest, disgusting in thier minds, but to put food on table, roof over head, they make men happy, which kills any attraction they might have to decent looking gents.

Keep it real I say, don't treat them bad, but maintain it transactional, always.
So many stories on here, guys bragging she's really into me I know it, lol, right, you still pay buddy one way or the other

 

[bIttersweat]

I don't know how any of you can get close to any of these women, I swear y'all need yer heads examined.
They lie, lie, lie and for good reason, they think we're all lowlifes ravaging their bodies, at the end of the day, no exceptions.

I mean put yourself in their shoes, 20% of the men they see are maybe someone they might be attracted to on a good day, a good day. The rest, disgusting in thier minds, but to put food on table, roof over head, they make men happy, which kills any attraction they might have to decent looking gents.

Keep it real I say, don't treat them bad, but maintain it transactional, always.
So many stories on here, guys bragging she's really into me I know it, lol, right, you still pay buddy one way or the other

I pay for the fantasy. I don’t want to hear what she may actually think of me if it is negative. Give me the fantasy, and I will try to make our time together as nice as I can.

 

[Surgeon1936]

I don't know how any of you can get close to any of these women, I swear y'all need yer heads examined.
They lie, lie, lie and for good reason, they think we're all lowlifes ravaging their bodies, at the end of the day, no exceptions.

I mean put yourself in their shoes, 20% of the men they see are maybe someone they might be attracted to on a good diay, a good day. The rest, disgusting in thier minds, but to put food on table, roof over head, they make men happy, which kills any attraction they might have to decent looking gents.

Keep it real I say, don't treat them bad, but maintain it transactional, always.
So many stories on here, guys bragging she's really into me I know it, lol, right, you still pay buddy one way or the other

yes never trust those women.Make you miserable to think what they are doing in every minute at work, Everyday open massageplanet and anticipate for "Good" review.Care and help without getting anything back.Even service for my money it's not the same service like before because you are not regular, the level of relationship is different. My head should be examined ASAP

 

[Social-Misfit]

I pay for the fantasy. I don’t want to hear what she may actually thinks of me if it is negative. Give me the fantasy, and i will try to make our time together as nice as I can.

100% buddy, they need to realize that the money they want from us, create an environment that's welcoming, fun etc. If I want a 40 HJ I'll go get that with low expectations, but when ya want 240+ for services, make it an experience

 

[Social-Misfit]

yes never trust those women.Make you miserable to think what they are doing in every minute at work, Everyday open massageplanet and anticipate for "Good" review.Care and help without getting anything back.Even service for my money it's not the same service like before because you are not regular, the level of relationship is different. My head should be examined ASAP

Dude, if I remember you were either involved or in love with one. Maybe one of yer surgeon buddies can open that head and check..lol

 

[Surgeon1936]

Dude, if I remember you were either involved or in love with one. Maybe one of yer surgeon buddies can open that head and check..lol

Yes perhaps my friend

 

[bIttersweat]

100% buddy, they need to realize that the money they want from us, create an environment that's welcoming, fun etc. If I want a 40 HJ I'll go get that with low expectations, but when ya want 240+ for services, make it an experience

There is a kind of closeness that makes sense. You don’t readily break up with a girl whose family owns a liquor store! Being ‘close’ to a girl who will give you sex in exchange for helping her move or buy a car, thats fun. That girl can have me on speeddial! But she’s not my girlfriend.

 

[bIttersweat]

100% buddy, they need to realize that the money they want from us, create an environment that's welcoming, fun etc. If I want a 40 HJ I'll go get that with low expectations, but when ya want 240+ for services, make it an experience

Uh huh, a $40 handjob i does not require too much performance, although if she can suppress her annoyance when I don't come in 2 minutes, it is appreciated! Once the expense is going into several hundreds, then I expect a bit of a performance.

 

[tr0mb0]

Haha it is cheaper if this is all you want, but some of us want other things as well.

Yes, if you want children, you need a spouse. If you want kids, dump any girl who doesn’t. Once you get past that, be very very picky. I thought i needed love, but when I had to choose between sexless love or loveless sex? How does that song go? “Bye bye Love!”

Lollol

 

[sinistarglobal]

I don't know how any of you can get close to any of these women, I swear y'all need yer heads examined.
They lie, lie, lie and for good reason, they think we're all lowlifes ravaging their bodies, at the end of the day, no exceptions.

I mean put yourself in their shoes, 20% of the men they see are maybe someone they might be attracted to on a good day, a good day. The rest, disgusting in thier minds, but to put food on table, roof over head, they make men happy, which kills any attraction they might have to decent looking gents.

Keep it real I say, don't treat them bad, but maintain it transactional, always.
So many stories on here, guys bragging she's really into me I know it, lol, right, you still pay buddy one way or the other

Very happy to keep things transactional and would very very unlikely get involved with an MPA outside of a session. That said, I have met several who are single moms, as other's have mentioned above. Often Viets who's husbands cheated on them early in their marriage. They seem to be doing the best they can. None have ever asked me for an extra cent beyond what expected from the session. They worry about the same things with their kids as well all do. I realize there are some/many crazies in this industry, but not all -- and some I have known for years.....

 

[ViagaraFalls]

My fav really appreciate value of money.Never spend on unnecessary things.Drives good but old car.Mostly saving to buy house

There are girls like that. They don’t stay in the business long of course, since they save up & reach their financial goals. The ones still working 5 years later are not in this group.

 

[bIttersweat]

Very happy to keep things transactional and would very very unlikely get involved with an MPA outside of a session. That said, I have met several who are single moms, as other's have mentioned above. Often Viets who's husbands cheated on them early in their marriage. They seem to be doing the best they can. None have ever asked me for an extra cent beyond what expected from the session. They worry about the same things with their kids as well all do. I realize there are some/many crazies in this industry, but not all -- and some I have known for years.....

There are some good human beings doing sex work. Treat them well & they will treat you really well! The rest, give them space & do not repeat.

 

[Lalallala]

There are some good human beings doing sex work. Treat them well & they will treat you really well! The rest, give them space & do not repeat.

Ugh. Ffs. My fav two MPAs are at the same spa; but one is going on vacation and who knows when she will be back. The other is getting her shifts cut back from 4 days to 2 to make way for new girls… a couple of the recent hires have been… not good… trying not to be too negative.

What are some MPAs that seem to be decent humans, pretty good at English or willing to have decent convo over google translate..? Also I do like high mileage but it’s more of an option since I am usually lower mileage but like the option with the same girl(s) if I want it. I’ve been looking for a replacement for the one going away on vacation but no luck. I will almost certainly follow the other girl to wherever she goes. So.. help on some recommendations? Body type and age isn’t a huge consideration, just not skin and bones. Good to excellent massage *and* high mileage is a prerequisite. Chatty and interesting is fairly important as well. Also height at 5’3”’or less. And if they take care of me then I will definitely take care of them. So.. suggestions please.

 

[Starbrand]

There are some good human beings doing sex work. Treat them well & they will treat you really well! The rest, give them space & do not repeat.

This is my policy. I have worked hard to find good ones and wanna keep them.

 

[OG_funguy]

Ugh. Ffs. My fav two MPAs are at the same spa; but one is going on vacation and who knows when she will be back. The other is getting her shifts cut back from 4 days to 2 to make way for new girls… a couple of the recent hires have been… not good… trying not to be too negative.

What are some MPAs that seem to be decent humans, pretty good at English or willing to have decent convo over google translate..? Also I do like high mileage but it’s more of an option since I am usually lower mileage but like the option with the same girl(s) if I want it. I’ve been looking for a replacement for the one going away on vacation but no luck. I will almost certainly follow the other girl to wherever she goes. So.. help on some recommendations? Body type and age isn’t a huge consideration, just not skin and bones. Good to excellent massage *and* high mileage is a prerequisite. Chatty and interesting is fairly important as well. Also height at 5’3”’or less. And if they take care of me then I will definitely take care of them. So.. suggestions please.

Go try Monica at Lavender...English is not great though. Her massage is very good, mileage is decent too.

 

[Lalallala]

Go try Monica at Lavender...English is not great though. Her massage is very good, mileage is decent too.

What I really like about Michelle@iu is that she’s easy to talk to and well versed in a lot of things. Michelle@lavender is pretty easy to talk to as well but I don’t know her mileage… yet.