How do you guys go back to normal sex?

[Dongo]

Thanks for all the sincere advice and replies. Good advice and I admit I fall into a lot of the comments about being addicted, messed up, personal life is not sorted out, etc. I have made a commitment to improve and cut down or quit hobbying. Not because it is wrong by societies view, but because I truly believe it has fucked up my normal view of women. Like porn messing up your view on normal sex. What's normal? Cant even answer that. But its not me thats for sure. Unless you guys tell me otherwise. But I guess one of my main questions is How do you get back to normal sex seeing the things you guys have and experienced the things you have from MPs? Is your personal sex life boring or exciting? Or you just solider through it to satisfy your SO? I guess the main question is how do you make love to your SO like she's the only one in the world for you? Is it all an act? Thanks for all the advice.

Asia, further to my post #30, I want to add that I do think that there is a difference between a males primal sense to mate with as many females as possible, and the fetish and porn aspects that have become common.
I for one don't get the fetish stuff, COF, Bondage, etc. I have to think those desires come more from a place mentally of seeking power or being subjugated more than from hormonal sex drive. Heck, I'm not into BJ's although DATY is something I do like, having a partner reach the peak of arousal and climax is rewarding. Straight sex is my thing, and is what I am best "equipped" for.
Again, I plan to finish off this lifetime without striving to meet a false expectation of monogamy from some bullshit religious edict.

 

[kittyhound69]

Hi
I agree with you and I am a woman.
Most woman are insecure themselves which is why they cannot handle their man checking out or being with another girl.
There are many women out there who would be ok with this hobby (if they knew the realities of your hobby, or were included sometimes) .

I truly believe the more of you reject your inner desires, you slowly kill your masculine energy and power...
Men and women both have desire and want to be desired.
I'm not a SP, but I was put on this site so I comment sometimes.
Before I knew about this hobby (before I became massage girl) I'm almost certain my ex was going behind me and seeing girls online. It drove me insane because I could feel he was different, in bed and mentally but I couldn't figure it out.
Looking back I would have potentially joined in the fun as he was always trying to get my to have threesome but I wasnt ready, I was young and he was twice my age.

Regardless, I think he missed a great opportunity by just showing lack of respect for relationship and it got annoying for me.

Also, when he met me he always asked why am I so crazy in bed... I gueess he was used to the crazy things girl when he paid them, he wasnt used to a girl like me who I assume was more wild than he was used paying for.

Once he got bored with me or I became too nosey I think that's when he called a SP.

At the end of the day you have to be true to yourself always, or you will be bored and looking for the hit of dopamine again
For me as a massage girl, even though I dont provide any extra I still love hanging out with my clients who are almost all men. I learn so much and have a great respect for them.. I'm not sure how I'll feel when I want to be in relationship again as I love chatting with all these different men.. it will be hard for him to accept I think.. although i am a stupidly loyal gf. At the end, desires are nature.

If you want some advice, I give a lot of advice to my clients, feel free to send me message & maybe I can give you advice.♡
Best of luck

-Sasha
@honeygoddessloveon Instagram
Www.sashalabellezza.ca

I want u too touch my cock pls

 

[luvdafurburger]

Hi
I agree with you and I am a woman.
Most woman are insecure themselves which is why they cannot handle their man checking out or being with another girl.
There are many women out there who would be ok with this hobby (if they knew the realities of your hobby, or were included sometimes) .

I truly believe the more of you reject your inner desires, you slowly kill your masculine energy and power...
Men and women both have desire and want to be desired.
I'm not a SP, but I was put on this site so I comment sometimes.
Before I knew about this hobby (before I became massage girl) I'm almost certain my ex was going behind me and seeing girls online. It drove me insane because I could feel he was different, in bed and mentally but I couldn't figure it out.
Looking back I would have potentially joined in the fun as he was always trying to get my to have threesome but I wasnt ready, I was young and he was twice my age.

Regardless, I think he missed a great opportunity by just showing lack of respect for relationship and it got annoying for me.

Also, when he met me he always asked why am I so crazy in bed... I gueess he was used to the crazy things girl when he paid them, he wasnt used to a girl like me who I assume was more wild than he was used paying for.

Once he got bored with me or I became too nosey I think that's when he called a SP.

At the end of the day you have to be true to yourself always, or you will be bored and looking for the hit of dopamine again
For me as a massage girl, even though I dont provide any extra I still love hanging out with my clients who are almost all men. I learn so much and have a great respect for them.. I'm not sure how I'll feel when I want to be in relationship again as I love chatting with all these different men.. it will be hard for him to accept I think.. although i am a stupidly loyal gf. At the end, desires are nature.

If you want some advice, I give a lot of advice to my clients, feel free to send me message & maybe I can give you advice.♡
Best of luck

-Sasha
@honeygoddessloveon Instagram
Www.sashalabellezza.ca

Nice to hear a woman's perspective on this. Of course I think most women would disagree with you but most guys would.
Your only mistakes are mentioning on here you're a woman and a MP. Get ready for the onslaught of knuckle draggers.

 

[xtc27]

Hi
I agree with you and I am a woman.
Most woman are insecure themselves which is why they cannot handle their man checking out or being with another girl.
There are many women out there who would be ok with this hobby (if they knew the realities of your hobby, or were included sometimes) .

I truly believe the more of you reject your inner desires, you slowly kill your masculine energy and power...
Men and women both have desire and want to be desired.
I'm not a SP, but I was put on this site so I comment sometimes.
Before I knew about this hobby (before I became massage girl) I'm almost certain my ex was going behind me and seeing girls online. It drove me insane because I could feel he was different, in bed and mentally but I couldn't figure it out.
Looking back I would have potentially joined in the fun as he was always trying to get my to have threesome but I wasnt ready, I was young and he was twice my age.

Regardless, I think he missed a great opportunity by just showing lack of respect for relationship and it got annoying for me.

Also, when he met me he always asked why am I so crazy in bed... I gueess he was used to the crazy things girl when he paid them, he wasnt used to a girl like me who I assume was more wild than he was used paying for.

Once he got bored with me or I became too nosey I think that's when he called a SP.

At the end of the day you have to be true to yourself always, or you will be bored and looking for the hit of dopamine again
For me as a massage girl, even though I dont provide any extra I still love hanging out with my clients who are almost all men. I learn so much and have a great respect for them.. I'm not sure how I'll feel when I want to be in relationship again as I love chatting with all these different men.. it will be hard for him to accept I think.. although i am a stupidly loyal gf. At the end, desires are nature.

If you want some advice, I give a lot of advice to my clients, feel free to send me message & maybe I can give you advice.♡
Best of luck

-Sasha
@honeygoddessloveon Instagram
Www.sashalabellezza.ca

Ah man! Out west gal… 2bad..

Thx 4 chiming in!

 

[Deleted member 88306]

 

[Deleted member 88306]

Hi
I agree with you and I am a woman.
Most woman are insecure themselves which is why they cannot handle their man checking out or being with another girl.
There are many women out there who would be ok with this hobby (if they knew the realities of your hobby, or were included sometimes) .

I truly believe the more of you reject your inner desires, you slowly kill your masculine energy and power...
Men and women both have desire and want to be desired.
I'm not a SP, but I was put on this site so I comment sometimes.
Before I knew about this hobby (before I became massage girl) I'm almost certain my ex was going behind me and seeing girls online. It drove me insane because I could feel he was different, in bed and mentally but I couldn't figure it out.
Looking back I would have potentially joined in the fun as he was always trying to get my to have threesome but I wasnt ready, I was young and he was twice my age.

Regardless, I think he missed a great opportunity by just showing lack of respect for relationship and it got annoying for me.

Also, when he met me he always asked why am I so crazy in bed... I gueess he was used to the crazy things girl when he paid them, he wasnt used to a girl like me who I assume was more wild than he was used paying for.

Once he got bored with me or I became too nosey I think that's when he called a SP.

At the end of the day you have to be true to yourself always, or you will be bored and looking for the hit of dopamine again
For me as a massage girl, even though I dont provide any extra I still love hanging out with my clients who are almost all men. I learn so much and have a great respect for them.. I'm not sure how I'll feel when I want to be in relationship again as I love chatting with all these different men.. it will be hard for him to accept I think.. although i am a stupidly loyal gf. At the end, desires are nature.

If you want some advice, I give a lot of advice to my clients, feel free to send me message & maybe I can give you advice.♡
Best of luck

-Sasha
@honeygoddessloveon Instagram
Www.sashalabellezza.ca

Opposite sex friendship can lead the cheating. https://www.fitday.com/fitness-arti...nds-could-be-more-trouble-than-its-worth.html

 

[Deleted member 88306]

As much as you think shes “the one”, the reality is shes not yours, its just your turn.

That sounds like redpill. llol

 

[luvdafurburger]

I'll be in Toronto in January ❤

Hope you're a good swimmer chumming the water and all that

 

[luvdafurburger]

 

[Kingtitty20]

Hey. One issue is I'm thinking of other woman when having sex with her. Plus she's the one initiating it. Not the other way around. The main problem is with me thinking of other women. I doubt she can weaponize sex right now as she wants it more than I do right now. I got a problem. Need help.

stop yanking it like a maniac brother, stop hobbying for a large duration of time. Learn some moderation

 

[bjsnfeet2]

I tried to quit several times before but eventually ended up coming back. Not just to the spas but to providers as well.

Finally, for myself, I figured that, lust and love are separate things and I should treat them separately. As long as you treat your significant other good, s/he is happy and you don’t get too addicted to this that you go broke or can’t provide your part for the family, it is what it is and should be accepted that way.

I had my issues with my significant other as well, about her looks, maintenance etc. and we couldn’t agree on improvements or enhancements. She is definitely beautiful but some of the providers are just incredible these days to pass and live without experiencing... They’re Not just beautiful but they’re built for sex.

It is also too late to end things with my family and not worth it. So I hobby. We still have a sex life but it doesn’t satisfy my deep dark desires. I’m not too kinky or into pain or anything too extreme but sometimes having rough sex with dirty talk etc. with a provider (consensually of course!! Nothing too crazy either) helps me let out my inner demons. I couldn’t have this with my life partner. So, in a way, this hobby keeps us sane and together in our relationship with my partner.

valid question either way.

 

[big.sleeze]

I had my issues with my significant other as well, about her looks, maintenance etc. and we couldn’t agree on improvements or enhancements.

This is why marriage is pointless. The wall is undefeated. Every woman will eventually hit it. When that happens you’ll want someone younger and hotter. Why sign the contract for a depreciating asset that has a 100% chance of becoming an unattractive cunt who weaponizes sex and does nothing but complains and nags. The only way out is giving up half of your shit. And we all know bitches don’t contribute anywhere near half of a couple’s net worth

 

[felixami]

Hi
I agree with you and I am a woman.
Most woman are insecure themselves which is why they cannot handle their man checking out or being with another girl.
There are many women out there who would be ok with this hobby (if they knew the realities of your hobby, or were included sometimes) .

I truly believe the more of you reject your inner desires, you slowly kill your masculine energy and power...
Men and women both have desire and want to be desired.
I'm not a SP, but I was put on this site so I comment sometimes.
Before I knew about this hobby (before I became massage girl) I'm almost certain my ex was going behind me and seeing girls online. It drove me insane because I could feel he was different, in bed and mentally but I couldn't figure it out.
Looking back I would have potentially joined in the fun as he was always trying to get my to have threesome but I wasnt ready, I was young and he was twice my age.

Regardless, I think he missed a great opportunity by just showing lack of respect for relationship and it got annoying for me.

Also, when he met me he always asked why am I so crazy in bed... I gueess he was used to the crazy things girl when he paid them, he wasnt used to a girl like me who I assume was more wild than he was used paying for.

Once he got bored with me or I became too nosey I think that's when he called a SP.

At the end of the day you have to be true to yourself always, or you will be bored and looking for the hit of dopamine again
For me as a massage girl, even though I dont provide any extra I still love hanging out with my clients who are almost all men. I learn so much and have a great respect for them.. I'm not sure how I'll feel when I want to be in relationship again as I love chatting with all these different men.. it will be hard for him to accept I think.. although i am a stupidly loyal gf. At the end, desires are nature.

If you want some advice, I give a lot of advice to my clients, feel free to send me message & maybe I can give you advice.♡
Best of luck

-Sasha
@honeygoddessloveon Instagram
Www.sashalabellezza.ca

Which inner desires?
What was different in the boudoir that you could sense?

 

[Deleted member 88306]

Most modern day women who listen to the bullshit will disagree with me, many agree and are just too quiet to speak their mind.
I'm one of those girls that many men want to fuck and girls want to be... so I know that most people are scared of rejection, jealous, etc as I was years ago. Deep internal stuff. Love yourself and be free is true unconditional love.

Love by our canadian standards is very conditional.

It's ok you are all more than welcome to make an appointment with me❤

I am not scared of rejection. Let's be honest, there are people who cheat on their partner. They are people who play games and women change their minds rather quickly. I had at least 2 strippers hit on me at my work. My family used to own a convince store. One of them just talk about her work at the club. The other told me the guy in the truck drove her around and buy her stuff. She was hitting on me and wanted to fuck me but I couldn't do it. The poor white dude simp was getting used, i doubt she was having sex with him. You know how men are, they are hoping to get sex. i could have got drunk with this stripper and get the simp pay for it.
I had married women and women in relationship hit on me. There was this tall chick that was married hit on me and when i refused she divorced her hubby trying to date me but I refused and then she tried to get back with the hubby.
I could have sex with at least 20 women without chasing them, of course all of them were too chicken to ask me out or tell me that she wanted to fuck me. There are creepy women out there that is for sure.
Now i see this self checkout attendant at the grocery store. i would have no problems giving her my number if she is single. I saw her this last Sunday if she's still there i can give her my number, all she can say is no for whatever reason, who cares.

 

[Deleted member 88306]

 

[Deleted member 88306]

 

[Deleted member 88306]

Basically modern women are prostitutes, sometimes high price prostitutes, eg child support/alimony.