I am sorry that the majority of your clients treat you this way.
I used to see a certain lady and she was going through a tough time and I saw her twice in a week because she needed to talk and so we just sat and talked for the sessions. We were friends and became better friends after that.
I always try and make the session about us and not me and treat the lady with respect and not as a piece of meat.
I find manners, caring , respect and cleanliness go along way.
being kind doesn't cost anything and being polite can be a turn on for some ladies.