Financial advice: money saving tip

[CharlyHeartsArsenal]

Hello Hello! Forget about this thread. It's long and boring. But, I would be more than glad to help a little with that student loan. It took me about 6 years to pay the damn thing! As soon as you are ready to become a proud MPA, feel free to PM me, if you like.

Oh, one last thing, I don't expect any kind of discount what-so-ever.

 

[Keira]

Im sorry, I thought commas seperate statements/thoughts/ideas in a sentance. Let me simplify this for you:

we don't work on corners.
we aren't desperate.
we are of value.

There sweetie, is that better??



How dare you personally attack me like this. Keep ASSuming whatever you want. For the of others reading this I am not gonna say what I'd like to say. However, I will say this...I don't appreciate being haggled because I do value myself. My room is my office for the day. I decide what does and does not go on in my room. I think a girl that discounts might have esteem issues, maybe one that offers FS too, but thats alot of assuming. I think there are some things in life worth paying for. Some things you only by on sale. Some things you would never buy, but love as a gift. I truely believe a service provided by any genre of worker (of the sexual nature) is one of those things you pay good $ for (assuming its for good service) I really dont care if you disagree.



ASSume whatever you want. I have alot on my plate and others can vouch for that on here that know me. I feel passionate about most things I do, including this business. Its important to me to approach 'career time' as an MPA this way for various reasons. And for the record, I too am a pervert!!! Proudly!



I dont know if I'd like SP-ing full-time. I was 1/2kidding, in the sense that I love to fuck and I dont fuck at work and SP's fuck. SIMPLE. UGH!

 

[misty-dawn]

Does Anyone understand what Disturbia is talking about? What am I changing?? i think Disturbia is..well...disturbed.





I never said it is a disrespectful job. YOU are translating it as such. I just said that if you are doing a certain job whether you are an MPA or whatever, it is most likely the only / best thing that you can do at the time. If you could do better then you would. I said the same thing about myself. I realize I can't be a lawyer, a surgeon or the prime minister of Canada so I do what I do best. I knew it would get translated that way that is why I mentioned some ladies may not like to hear that.

 

[Chucky]

Treating people nice has nothing to do with money, unless you are a shallow money starved person!!! It tells a lot about oneself when all you think about is money, and it must be an ugly existence.

Like I said, I bring what I have to spend, if its not enough then the MPA has the right to turn me down. If I walk into a Bentley dealership and tell them I can only spend $60 000, they can tell me its not enough, and I look around and I leave, but I'll tell you what, I'm not far right now from buying a Bentley in such a bad market!!

 

[Martin A]

Excellent post Sergeant.

I agree with everything you said except for not being able to put a dollar value on the mental and physical strain these girls have to endure. Well, in fact, there is a dollar value to this "strain" and it's the money these girls are making by working in the industry. Most of the girls are doing this by choice, so there is obviously a dollar value that they place on their "strain".

 

[oweaponx]

I dont work at a top spa. I dont know what they charge. I do know they vary a little, but in the same general area. Assuming you mean if they lowered their rates, I'd say yes. HFH, SRM, and Allure arent close enough to eachother, and there are areas of town with various level spas...just cuz Spa A charges $X, doesnt mean Spa B across the street needs to charge $X as well. Its about so much more than $ and mileage.

 

[Pompal 09.]

Almost always, the MPA gets fired and MP owner hires someone who follows the rules for the sake of MP owner but more important someone who cares about her own safety.

P.S. I am not suggesting that "mexicanbullfrog" is a bad person. But there are so many maniacs out there.

 

[skeptic]

Ok for the 15th time...I DONT WORK AT A TOP SPA!!!!!!!!!!!!! If a guy wants to leave, see ya later bud! I dont care. You can pick a lower priced option. And trust me, horny guys dont leave because the top session is too much. They leave if the service they want is too much and WE tell them to leave. There are many less expensive spas in TO, good luck!

 

[abc]

Can YOU?!!! $$ is everything and the KEY to anything! Often perfect tool, when well spent, to figure out who's behind an ID on the 'net!




Now that you see what you did with your silly post, end it by apologizing to both ladies and gents and respectfully ask Mr. Sheik to LOCK the thread, at his discretion.

 

[TomTom]

That's a nice thing to say about your fellow sexworkers. So any poor girl that works the streets you see as desperate and of no value. Yet, you want regular people (people not in the sex trade) to treat you like a queen. You find it insulting that people barter but it's ok for you to insult your own kind.

You my dear, are a naive little girl on cloud nine. Making some good money now in a nice spa thinking this is the life. The truth is, you dont even have a clue what real life is about. At least that's the way i see it.

 

[Raliegh Theodore Sakers]

the universities are full of rub and tuggers...especially the LAW SCHOOLS, MED SCHOOLS and grad schools!

 

[73777]

thats tough because no 2 days are the same. whos to say what happens when or what prime-time is that day.

 

[Magz]

I almost never negotiate. If the price is not posted, I ask at the end of the session what to leave. If the number is too high, I pay her and don't repeat. If the number is too low, I top it up. If the number is fair, and I had a good time, I'll be back.
I do prefer spas where the price is posted. I prefer not to negotiate for intimate acts. Yes, I'm aware it's often an act, but it is still an intimate service. JMHO.

 

[Bob J]

I happen to think any great MPA provides a premium product. You are telling me that the Tarah's, Carmen's, Cyan's, Victoria's of the biz arent premium??? Anyway boys, Im not trying to argue the value point...im just saying that great service is hard to come by, and whether you are the seller or the buyer, the value shouldnt change.

before becoming an MPA I was in sales and there are very specific things I learned in terms of "value"...one minor point that comes to mind is wording...terms like "deal" "sale" etc can actually devalue your product or service. As an MPA I havent taken the car-salesmen approach. I dont wheel and deal. I have ooddles of respect for my clients. I go out of my way to show appreciation to them, especially this time of year. I make it very clear that I not only enjoy our time together, but also value their business!!

We totally dont have to agree here, I wouldnt expect you to. You've never been an MPA. I have never been a client. Obviously my looking glass is filtered. I know what we as attendants think/experience, and I know what it does to business from an owner/manager's perspective. Like I said earlier in this thread, it can kill a business. Easier than mileage! I have seen it happen. That kind of info would never make it to you guys! You dont need to know the ins and outs behind the scenes!!

Cheers!

 

[No can do Obama!]

It's OK MPA2 I think Disturbia has been skipping his ESL classes lately. He has been having trouble understanding my posts too.

Can we all kiss and make-up now

 

[Annorofah]

Excellent post!!

 

[Lotamel]

Well then THAT is the problem! Not pricing!!

 

[carmencita120]

Hey you are entitled to try, but spend a sec thinking WHY we find it insulting...we dont work on corners, we arent desperate, and we are of value. Bartering will rarely get you good service, especially when there are clients that tip. You dont wanna be labelled a cheapo. Regardless if its posted or not, (because thats a matter of bylaw restrictions, not 'anything goes) research can easily lead you to what the prices are at any given place. You guys freak out if a girl overcharges, but see no harm/shame in discounting....tell me how on earth that is different!!



Actually, MPA2, I don't negotiate, but from a few visits to some GTA spas, I could tell that different girls charge different rates. While I don't negotiate as I don't indulge in this hobby often, the discussion of rates and the fact that the girl can decide the rate that she will charge means that it is fundamentally a negotiation.

To your last sentenece in regards to discounting, well, have you never bought a service or product on sale? Did you get made at the business for undercharging you? Were you so overridden with guilt of being offered a discount that you offered to buy at full price? If you ever bought something on sale, didn't you feel so bad for the person who bought it a week earlier at 20% more than you did? Discounting is a simple reality of business and services of a MPA are for the most part, a commercial transaction. Adopting this philosophy is also healthy for the MPA because if she starts veiwing it something much more personal than a business transaction, then she invites her client to do the same and I don't think you want that.

Also, why would a MPA find it so insulting. I'm in the service industry and clients always do comparison shopping to ensure that they get the best deal. Some clients tell us upfront that he/she feels that we overcharge and it's our responsibility to ensure them that they will receive quality service at a fair price. In order to work where I work, I had to go to School, pass courses and train in my field, yet I don't find it insulting for client to search for the best deal. I don't view it as though they are rejecting me personally as it's just business. Similiary, there other people who learn a trade, do an apprenticeship or train for years to do their job but clients still ask them for discounts. I don't see a lot of the professional and workers feeling personally slighted. They accept it as a realtiy of business.

 

[His LadyBug]

Does anyone remember my brick wall comment?

I'd like to change that to 20 inch concrete reinforced with a 5 inch metal plate.

Mods PLEASE lock this thread. I can't take this anymore.

 

[Frankie Baby 82]

That one was hilarious.

Anyways, MPA, I never made a judgement about you and didn't clump you with any group. I took your word at face value.

There has been a lot of misintrepretation on this thread to say the least.